I know a couple of INFP women, like... two? There are two who come to mind who are mentors of mine but I've met several in the course of my life. I've met one INFP guy in my whole life and the only reason I knew he was that was because our mutual professor had us take MBTI. He once told me, "You know, you can stand here." That was the extent of our acquaintanceship. xD
I volunteer with lots of organizations, I art--'tis a verb as of this very moment--and as approximately half the time I'm an INFP, I would like to think I do a lot of INFP activities.
I'm not asking just to stalk some poor, innocent Healer kid; I'm not like that. I'm just curious about you all since I've never met one! I know NFs are rare, but I've known several ENFJ guys and even one ENFP. Do you men encounter one another or are you the only INFPs you know? What are you guys like? (World's worst question, I know. I'm sorry xD) Do people confuse you with other types (types I could've confused you with, perhaps)? Would you say you're different than female INFPs? Female INFPs, feel free to join in: of the others of your type you've found, have most of them been women?