[clowder]

Apparently an ENFJ found this on the INFJ forums and now I'm putting it here. :)



Dear ESFJ sister,
we're supposed to get along but it seems like lately we fight more than ever. When we're being buds it's great, but you need to realize the things you do have consequences and grow up a little. It hurts me when you're unhappy.
Sincerely,
an INFP.

[GreenLadyBug]

Dear long-time family friend,

I'm deeply hurt that you didn't invite me to your wedding but constantly talk about it to my family right in front of me as if I can't hear you. I thought I was as much a friend to you as the rest of the family but apparently not. I hope your wedding is amazing anyway.

Sincerely,
An INFP

(Don't know if I did this right but whatever.)

[clowder]

There weren't any specific instructions on the other thread so I think you can be as creative as you want with it. :)
and that letter breaks my heart. It's a shame when things like that happen. Then you're kind of stuck in limbo unless you confront them. (which can be a difficult thing to do sometimes.)

[Kriash]

Dear family-

I know you don't understand me at all- and that's fine. It would be so nice if you would stop attacking me for who I am though.
Just because someone is different from what you consider normal- does not give you a pass to try and "correct" them. I think I am perfectly fine the way I am, and I don't need your help to become "normal". I would also appreciate it if you would stop giving my cell phone number out to preachers/other people you think can help me. I don't appreciate the calls at 8am from people telling me that I fail at life.

Thanks.

-A very irritated INFP

[clowder]

Dear INFP forum,
I don't know any INFP's in real life. So when I found this place where I seemed so welcomed, I felt like the last unicorn that had just found an online community of unicorns.
Love,
a very grateful INFP <3

[ethylester]

Dear my favored INTPs

I love you. I love how you care so much about knowing things correctly. I love how you come up with absurd ideas and laugh easily. I love how you don't give a crap about what anyone expects of you yet you don't act boastful about it. I love how you are always challenging your mind. I love how patient and thoughtful you can be with me. I love how you are usually up for anything once, and often twice or three times. I love your reserved nature and your gentle aura. You guys are my favorites.

Sincerely,
INFP admirer

[ethylester]

Dear my ISTP friend,

Although you are the most impulsive person I have ever met, your reactionary nature makes you good to have around when the shit hits the fan and I'm too pansy to fight. and I love how appreciative you are when I pay attention to you. It's easy to pay attention because even though you may seem threatening on the outside, I know you are a fun loving person with simple needs who just likes feeling wanted. A lot of people make it apparent they don't care if you are there or not. I don't understand why. Also, I really admire your skills with all things mechanical. It blows me away that you can look at something and figure out how it works and fix it when it breaks. I like how you can explain the physical world to me in a way that is not condescending and at the same time, I can help you figure out your emotions and you don't blow me off.

fondly, your INFP feeling-interpreter :)

PS, thanks for taking me to the NASCAR race. I actually had tons of fun. I NEVER would have done that if I didn't know you, you big old hillbilly, you. ;)

[ethylester]

(this thread is fun!)

Dear ENTP pal,

You are super fun! Having you around always makes things more exciting and enjoyable somehow. I think it's funny that you think me and you are the same person but opposite genders. I see you more of a brother than like a twin. And it's awesome that we are both only-children so we can call each other brother and sister and get away with it. Plus, we even look like we could be related! I think that is really exciting and fun and i'm glad we get along so well. I'm happy to have met you and it doesn't bother me when you call me "darlin" or "sweetheart" or that you hit on me (and on every other girl you see within 50 feet of you) because I don't see you as a threat at all. You just love everybody and are full of fascination for other humans! I share this with you and so we can be fascinated together and not be offended when we ditch the other person to go get in someone else's head for a while. Oh, and I love when you make up words when you text me. :)

Your "pal"- INFP sis

[lirica]

Dear ENTP acquaintance,

I know I'm the one who approached you in interest of finding a new friend. At that time I didn't know much about you, and
I was sincerely happy I could meet someone new. I know it's completely rude, non-acceptable, and the lowest thing one can do, but I just couldn't keep replying to your e-mails anymore. The thing is, you are a great guy, but our views of the world largely differ and I honestly don't think we can get much out of going out together and getting to know each other better. I must say I found some of the comments you made in your last mail quite offensive, I know that your intentions were never to offend me, but by reading that I just figured out the way you think, and it completely clashes with my way of thinking. And just to inform you, I do HAVE general knowledge about things, it's just that I like to focus more in the world inside me, rather than the one outside me. However, thank you for your time until now but I don't think this can work out. At all. I'm really sorry.

Sincerely, an INFP

[ethylester]

Dear ESFJ mother

Do I even attempt to write you a faux note on PerC? No, I shouldn't. Too much to say that would bring me down. I feel good right now. You try really hard to make me happy and I feel like a guilty brat rejecting you the way I do. I know I reject you. I know it hurts your feelings or "hurts your heart" as you often put it. I am sorry that I reject you and push you away and never let you get close to me. You smother me though. Your hugs last too long and suffocate me and your kisses are hot, wet and give the feeling of being eaten, slurped up. like Ursula in the Little Mermaid, you will swallow me with your giant tentacles if i'm not careful. I am sorry to describe you in such a way because I know you don't mean to come across this way to me and that you are just totally confused by me, if anything. Perhaps some day we will be friends and I will call you when I am having a good day just to chit chat, the way you call me when you are lonely and I remain on the line in silence, counting the seconds. I am sorry I reject you so harshly. I promise to work on it. I still love you even though it feels weird to say it.

your INFP daughter