I don't know if anyone else can relate to this, but I never really start liking someone until it starts to seem that they like me. Sometimes I guess I get overly paranoid, thinking a guy might like me when really he was just being friendly. Which is bad, because I tend to fall head over heels and start doing highly unrealistic fantasizing before I realize that I was just paranoid and they're really not interested in me at all. But I read somewhere that INFP's don't show love for others unless the person they're interested in shows that they obviously want to be loved by them. Can anyone relate to this?