What type are you least attracted to and why?
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What type are you least attracted to and why?
All of them! >_>
That is because I'm cranky this morning and hate everyone.
On a non-cranky day, hard to say.
Usually individual over type.
If I had to look back, probably SJ types.
Going by my observations in real life...
I struggle to relate to SP types because they can come across as shallow. ISFPs frustrate me the most because they seem overly concerned with outward quirkiness and pretty things, but don't seem to have much behind it all. So while they look interesting, often they're not. ESFPs are similar, but they seem more honest about it. xSTPs are just on a completely different planet.
The SJ types are unattractive to me because they seem rigid and unimaginative. I know an ESTJ (male) and ESFJ (female) couple and their relationship is like my worst nightmare. They conform to every stereotypical gender role in existence. It's creepy as hell.
On the other hand, due to deep insecurities, I find myself intimidated by NTs and other NFs. This has led me to mostly befriend the above types over the years and has caused me to stay away from what I'm actually attracted to.
Well I'm most attracted to INFPs (how narcissistic of me). I'm probably least attracted to SJs because everything is so logical for them. And though logic is good I need more than that. I'm all touchy feely. :P
I'd say in general, I am most often put off by SJ. by which I mean I will meet one and come away scratching my head as to whether they disliked me or where just being reserved. Having said that though one of my closest friends is an SJ and we get along great. I think that he has developed other levels of his personality. So, he's not an extreme example. Not to say I don't like SJ's I just have a hard time connecting with them on any level usually.
ESTJ is a hit or miss thing. Some are awesome, others are not
I'm least attracted to xSFP.
SJs can grind my gears... so eventually, even though I'd enjoy their company, they'll be turn-offs.
To be honest, I find Fe to be the most annoying thing of all. It makes me feel like I've been run over by a truck seven times, and then I have a headache. They just don't Shut Up. Ever. I want to scream. For this reason, I will say SJ types, because so often their feelings are unoriginal and (imo) unecessary in their manner, and being that I kinda absorb their energies, in a sense, absorbing so much Fe in any occasion other than small wears me out, fast. It's alright in small doses, though.
However, even NJ's wear me out with all their feelings they talk about because their cognitive functions order it so. Like INTJ's.
If I were to best get along with a type, it would be be a ntp or stp.
INTJ, INFJ, maybe an ENFP. ENFJ seems to be the ultimate balance to me, idealism + extraversion + order. The ones I know are almost too awesome to understand. Overall, I would say that it's hard for me to deal with SJs and sometimes S in general, especially if it's strong. TJs and I balance each other out.
INFP.
Especially the FINP type (http://forums.intpcentral.com/showth...-types-of-INFP) , the "SJ INFP" , who want to ressembe ISTJ. Moralist, try to maintain a self image into themself, ultra judgmental , jump automatically from minor detail to Fi critical conclusion, and never think about if they life or us follow their principle or idealized self.
Haha.
Aw, I kind of feel bad for the SJs now. :( Hugs to all the SJs if any of them are reading this. We really do love you, it just wouldn't work out.
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