I messed with one of my friends last night. It was non-malicious. :)
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I messed with one of my friends last night. It was non-malicious. :)
I like to mess wih my friends mind sometimes haha. I would only feel comfortable doing it to people who are close to me. Sometimes it is called tortorous but they know it is in all good fun! =)
Sometimes, but I never play mind-games with them just to hurt their feelings. I always do so for a reason.
Sample event, I noticed one of my female friends alone in a corner, and I felt she was lonely. So I went up to Andrea(that's her fake name for now.) and asked her what was wrong. She told me that her best friend Lady Gaga(that too is obviously a made up name) has been distant from her lately. Lady Gaga seems to be hanging out with someone new, who I will call Pie. Now, I asked her if she could would want to be friends with me, but then I remembered we already are *sad face*. So I held her hand and told her, it's okay.
Later that day, I thought up of something that might get Lady Gaga to notice Andrea again. So I went up to Pie, while she was conversing with Lady Gaga, and asked her " Pie, why did you take Lady Gaga away from Andrea?" Then Lady Gaga, suddenly looked at me and said "What?" Then Pie asked Andrea what I meant, and Andrea, embarrassed began to cry; and wonder how I could do such a thing. Then lots of people in group suddenly gathered around, Andrea and started asking questions, and then Lady Gaga herself went beside Andrea and listened. She really got angry at me for a long time, and a lot of people, couldn't understand why I did that. They asked me, and I said that it's better left unknown. I sacrificed our not that close neutral relationship, so she could have closure on her best friend. She moved on, I'm willing to appear bad, just to help someone. (However, I'm not willing to appear bad, for the sake of it.)
I'm done with playing games with guys, it's either they like me or not. I don't have time to play games.
I would never play games with people. But I know that if I had that intention I would be very good at it. Being a listener means you learn lots of things about them and my intuition would show me exactly what buttons to push.
I only do quick little jokes on people to see their reactions. I’m never mean or anything and usually the jokes are funny to me and the person I’m messing with.
Example: ( I will be Jill)
Jill walks over to Jack and pokes his arm. “Jill, why did you just poke me!?” Jack shouts.
Jill says quite serious “Jack what are you talking about? I didn’t do anything , I didn’t poke you!”
Jack looking very confused and slightly appalled said “I SAW YOU! I saw you poke me how can you deny something that we both know you did!?”
“Jack it’s easy to deny considering the fact that I did not poke you. You’re the one who’s lying and making things up.” Jill replied. Then Jill stretched out her arm and poked Jack again.
“JILL STOP THAT!” Jack yelled.
“STOP WHAT!?” Jill screamed back
“You keep on poking me and you keep on lying about it!”
Jill’s face had a look of great concern “Jack I don’t know what’s gone into you. Maybe you want to see a doctor, or you can tell me if your seeing things. but you cant live life in your delusions any longer.” Jack just stared at Jill. It was plain to see that Jack was in a state of amazement and disbelief of what Jill said to him.
“Are you serious?” Jack questioned.
“Nah,” Jill smiled. “I just like to mess with you!”
“Oh” and they both laughed.
THE END LOL
Me...I can be manipulative. But that's such a bad trait :(
And what's even worse is that sometimes, I feel bad afterwards!
Sometimes, but never cruelly and never for pro-longer periods.
I do XD I am kind of evil about it, but only to my siblings. I'm a very sarcastic person in general though, and a lot of people can't tell when I'm joking unfortunately.
The most evil thing I ever did though, was when I was in highschool, I'm 27 now, but my sister never ever missed school, and the one day she did and her friend was trying to get me to tell him why, so I told him she got hit by a car and broke both of her arms and her big toe, I could hardly keep myself from laughing the whole time, I kept turning my face away pretending to cry as I was really chuckling like mad, but he couldn't tell, and unfortunately this was the biggest loud mouth in the school, after I left to go to my school he told the other students. Kids were devastated, going to the counselors and going home crying, teachers were calling my house trying to find out if she was alright. I actually forgot by the time she got home, and she came marching out, "Did you tell BLAHBLAH that I got hit by a car and broke both of my arms and my big toe?" oh man, her friends never forgave me, some never spoke to me again. I almost feel bad about it, but I think it gave my sister a good idea of what she meant to a lot of people.
I've done a lot of other evil things but that's the very worst I think.
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