[B_M_192]

Gay INFP male.
Always kinda felt like the odd one out.

[Neonite]

I guess I'm a guy.
I guess I like guys.

So, hi.

[basementbugs]

Bi-romantic grey-asexual (aka 'grey-a') here. "Bisexual who isn't a very sexual person" works well enough if I don't want to explain the grey-a part to someone though, haha. It's more or less the same thing.

[Morpheus83]

Another gay INFP male over here too.

[Hrothgarsdad]

Gay INFP male
My only LTR was with an ISFJ - challenging, to say the least.

[VesperHale]

Another one here *waves*Never got the chance to date anyone. Really want to try it though.

Digital date? Just out of curiosity? :P

[Kito]

-raises hand-

[Ethereal]

I'm so homosexual I shit skittles and piss lemonade. Honestly, in my opinion, I think there is just as many gay INFPs as there are gay *insert type here*s.

[da_gobbo]

very interesting thread def has me thinking

ok i'm quoting myself wierd i know, updating what i said before


i have thought (i also forgot about this thread and that i'd posted)


i'm a genderfluid genderqueer (primarily agendered but not always, no idea what causes it to change just realise it does change)

sexuality wise i'm either a grey-a or a demisexual who's pretty much only interested in Women (so gynasexual) though i can feel physical attraction to m-f trans if they've reached the point they look more like a woman than a man (whats between someones legs doesnt really change if i'm attracted to them or not, i just don't find men attractive though)


i've no idea if i qualify as gay or not,

i'm physically male & i'm only attracted to women but that includes though who used to be men, even when they still have male genitals,

my own gender identity is sometimes female, and i'm attracted to females, but sometimes im without gender or male.

i've kinda come to the conclusion gay and streight are labels that just don't work in my case because they seem to assume that gender=sex when they are really 2 seperate qualities that in most people happen to coincide.

so am i gay? if i could work that out i'd have a go at the meaning of life, with the present definitions i've absolutly no idea, despite knowing what i am and what i like, although there are labels i've found fit me and i'm happy to use when i want to explain my preferences, gay and streight just don't work

[Runemarks]

I just took a test out of boredom, and that's what it said.

Major sexual orientations
Straight: 1
Ambisexual: 7
Flexamorous: 6
Queer: 2

Sexual traits
Transitioning: 5
Metamorphic: 3

1. Ambisexual: You are attracted to both men and women, though not necessarily in the same ways or to the same degree. Also known as classic bisexual, AC-DC, 50-50, or a Kinsey 3.
2. Flexamorous: You have the capacity to have romantic relationships with both men and women. Your tastes and experience may be fluid and not determined by the gender of your partner.
3. Queer: You are frustrated with the divide between gay and straight, and suspicious of divisions between male and female. You may consider yourself post-gay and beyond labels. You may also call yourself homoflexible, to reflect your gay preferences and openness to other relationships.
4. Metamorphic: You feel different from the gender of your birth, either in your life as a whole or only in the realm of sex. There are several different metamorphic types; also known as androgynous, cross-dresser, transgender, transvestite, transvestic fetish, or transsexual.
5. Transitioning: Your sense of sexual orientation is changing or evolving. Commonly known as coming out of the closet, in the case of same-sex interests; you may transition in other directions.
6. Straight: You lack sexual and romantic feelings for members of the same sex, and any same-sex experiences have confirmed your lack of interest. Also known as heterosexual.

Um, I don't really see myself as bi, and I'm not totally sure I am flexamorous, so I'm inclined to choose queer for now. Ugh... there are so many terms to describe sexuality today, and they confuse me a lot
I don't "feel" different from my gender of birth. I just have a few (not physical) traits that are usually easiest to find in males, but they're weak. Maybe it's because I'm still unsure of my preferences, and the only thing I'm certain is that if I were a boy I would be definitely gay - and thinking that I should have been born a gay male is way easier than trying to figure out my actual orientation.