I want to be so deeply intertwined with someone that if the entire world ended and we were the only two people left remaining, we would barely bat an eye and just be so thankful to have found one another. Why? Because when you truly connect with someone, when you hold their hand, cuddle with them at night, or even think of one another as you are apart, it feels as if you are the only two people in the world.
To match this, I've always believed that if you love somebody, you would do anything for them. If they love you in return, they won't take advantage of that. For me, I've been in a number of relationships where women generally let me do as I wish, they let me take the reigns and decide where we go and what we do -- they're just happy to be with me. Well, the truth is that I'm just happy to be with them too. When you're in love with somebody, it's like having a 2nd conscience in your head, instead of going with the impulsive "I want to do this" the thoughts of the other person (which may be unspoken) will intertwine with yours and help you decide something that's best for both of you. Ideally, I want that complete resonance with someone so that we are permanently ingrained within each other.
I'd like to be with someone who shares similar ideologies, but is different enough that we can both grow by knowing one another. Honestly, if either of us was perfect then we wouldn't need one another, I often find that disagreements can often lead to growth as long as you are open minded enough to understand the other viewpoints. While you may never agree on certain stances, that can be a good thing because no set idea is best in all situations.
Honestly, I prefer women that are generally not open with their thoughts with others, but would open up to me. I immensely love the idea of sharing something with someone that no one else has. I'm fairly open on the forefront, but not about the things that matter. I have -never- truly opened up with someone to the point of absolute vulnerability. If that did occur, I'd be married to them now.
I want no secrets whatsoever. I value the ability to be entirely open with one another, whether it may be hurtful or not. Beyond that, I want anything that goes through one of us (ie: important talk with a friend) to go through both of us. If a friend made me swear not to tell a soul, then I would swear to it, but tell my partner. My promises are her promises, and her promises are mine.
I never want that feeling of having to try to escape from one another. When we inevitably have any disputes, I don't want anyone running away. We may not want to talk about it and that's fine (at first), but I'm still going to hold her close -- maybe whisper in an endearing way that's she an ass, but give her a kiss on the back of her head. In the end it's like "hey, I'm mad at you, but I love you with all my heart and soul" :D
Anywaysssssss, I could go on for days (sorta did).