Hi, I'm new here.
I just realized this about myself and I'm guessing that a lot of INFP's are like this about their friends.
When I have a potentional "best friend" I stay friends with them for years, but over the years I can't help but notice more and more things about that person that bothers me but I keep it to myself for a long time. I keep it to myself because I'm scared it will hurt the other person's feelings and fear that there will be a conflict.
Once I can't stand the person, anymore, I can't bring myself to do anything about it but to just give them the cold shoulder and just.. stop talking to them completely and wait until they figure it out and just.. change. Lol..I hold grudges.
I really hate it about myself and I've done it to three of my past good friends. I'm actually doing this to one of my current "best friend" but when she blew up on me and then asked if I wanted to be her friend or not but I just said "I'll think about it" and pretty much gave up on our friendship. If I'm not happy with how she is, why should I continue to stay friends? I know it sounds selfish, but it's just how I've always been. *shrugs*
Is anyone else like this? I'd like to meet some INFP's like myself. :)