As INFPs, we tend to connect extremely well with 4 other personality types, the INFPs, the ENFPs, the ENFJs, and the INFJs. (There's like 6 other good matches, but I'm going to discuss our very best matches.)
I believe that each and every INFP and their romantic needs are different from the next INFP. It's only natural that we all have different preferences. :) After studying the 4 above types, I've concluded that each of their personality traits can make one INFP happy while make another INFP not too happy. One INFP may want someone more outgoing, while another one wants someone more restrained, for example.
So without further do... Here is what I think:
- INFP- For those who want a very emotionally-charged romantic partner who is very dreamy and sentimental, another INFP is the way to go in my opinion. You two will spend hours upon hours talking about deep discussions and love the romantic side of the life; You two will no doubt be extremely sensitive to each others needs, and would write love letters to each other as well make little homemade gifts. For them, it is not money they want, but for the added thought and sentimentally. They will be surprised to see how easy their conversations with each other flow. They are each others twin souls, literally! For those who want a soft, sweet romance that will last a lifetime... I recommend the INFP.
- ENFP- For the socially-energized INFP who wants a partner who values the true meaning of happiness and having unadulterated fun, going for the ENFP would be a great idea. You two will have a blast together, but also hold a very deep bond that the world can't help but notice. You two have so much in common, can have deep discussions, and the next second get involve in a silly tickle fight together. ENFPs are said to be the least extroverted of the other extroverted personality types, which may be a good thing for the INFP who places great importance on spending time with people you love the most more than a bunch of strangers at a party. However, when they do go to parties, they will be the fun loving couple that people cannot help but envy them secretly. If you want an adorable, kid-at-heart partner, go for the ENFP!
- ENFJ- There are INFPs out there who may feel a little lost in life and love, and needs someone to help them guide them and teach them important lessons that can benefit them... This is where the ENFJ comes in to the rescue. INFPs who are more likely to respect and become swooned over leaders and authoritarians, will be extremely happy with dating an ENFJ. The ENFJ can help them come out of their shell, and the INFP can teach them some independence. What one lacks, the other gives it to them. ENFJs are super charming and charismatic, and INFP will feel a grand sense of luck that can't be denied. People will become extremely jealous of their super close bond and their amazing ability to open up to each other without hesitation. For the INFP who wants that super suave prince (or princess!) charming, the ENFJ just may be the ticket to your happiness.
- INFJ- Those who are typed as INFJs may be seem as poets or philosophers; Insightful, creative, visionary, idealistic, complex, and deep. For the INFP who wants an INFP partner without the tendencies to be late for dates or turn on the waterworks for small stuff, the INFJ may be the ones they are dreaming about. INFJs are usually quiet and thrive on being alone or with very close people in their lives, and have no time for big social events or going out every night; They are happy just staying home with their INFP darlings. INFP who are homebodies will find true happiness in this relationship, and the INFJ admires their insights on life and their sensitivity. The INFJ will try everything to keep their partner happy, and will do what they have to do to keep things running smoothly. The INFJ/INFP are like that of an old couple; Happily cooped up in their homes, sitting and smiling silently as one watches television and the other knitting a sweater. They are very comfortable with the silence they share.
Entirely all my honest assessment and opinions. With that shared, which one of the four above would you be the most happiest with, and why? (It's alright to choose more than one.)