[Goosefish]

I have a question for my INFP commentors:
As of today, i convinced ENTJ to call and talk to INFP about the conflict. INFP said there wasn't one (even though it was obvious the day before). Is she just trying to end conflict or is she still upset?
ENTJ thinks she just forgives and forgets quickly, but I think she is just trying to put it behind her...(which wont solve anything in the long run. These arguments are becoming increasingly frequent)
Am I right to think she's still peaved? Or do INFP find it easy to forgive and forget?

For me, if something happened yesterday, I have probably forgotten it. I've tried to hold grudges before, but I rarely keep them longer than a few minutes.



I have an ENTJ mom. My mom and I used to argue a lot which drove my sister crazy but it was more about my inability to get homework done and get ready for school on time than objective disagreements.

People say that it is impossible to argue with me. People who don't know me well think they've convinced me in the beginning and change subjects, but in my head, I am disagreeing. Arguments with people who know me well enough to realize I disagree end when they realize they can't convince me. I am fine with other people seeing it their way and me seeing it my way. I can see how this might annoy someone. If Ms. INFP is like me, then I feel bad for Ms. ENTJ.

[lirulin]

....am I crazy, or did you only mention the ENTJ apologising?
Surely they are both at fault.

Also, what a stupid argument. Yeesh.

[Yeomen94]

They have talked Paradigm...I wasn't there, but I haven't heard them complaining about each other in a while so it seems things are going well :)
And I believe (hope) you are right OrangeAppled- I have suggested to my ENTJ friend that she leave the conflict in the past and move one like Ms.INFP. We're just crossing our fingers and hoping everything works out.
We might talk about it a little more after marching band is over and we're getting more than three hours of sleep...

[dreamcatcher]

I get along great with INFPs. They're so easy going, I could never imagine fighting with one over something so silly.

Ms. ENTJ shouldn't have insisted but Ms. INFP shouldn't have ran off. How rude of both of them.

What's wrong with running off? I tend to do that because I figure if there's conflict and it's not getting anywhere through debate, it's best to walk away until it blows over and both people are feeling less infuriated with each other.