[Absurdist]

Me to! Maybe there's some sort of a naked bond here - I sleep naked, you sleep naked, it's almost like we sleep naked together! ^^

Yes maybe, but i don't think my friend would be to happy with me sleeping naked with someone other than her.

[doris88]

Yes maybe, but i don't think my friend would be to happy with me sleeping naked with someone other than her.

Well, good for her :)

[HonestThief]

I'm not actually Infp but you guys are awesome :P

[lifeisanillusion]

Sometimes I like keeping the wisdom that life teaches me to myself. I don't always feel the need to share everything I learn.

[kaychivers]

Sometimes I like keeping the wisdom that life teaches me to myself. I don't always feel the need to share everything I learn.

I hear that!

[DarwinsBastard]

Okay, I just got choked up, while watching the new spider man movie... twice.


I seriously feel broken, and so easily emotionally manipulated.







On an only sort of related note, what the hell type is Peter Parker considered to be? I couldn't help but try to figure him out. I just couldn't put my finger on it.

[kaleidoscope]

I just realized how scared I am of going beyond that honeymoon phase in a relationship. I've never been in a relationship that lasted years, and that's normal because of my age, but I can't help but wonder about someday. The thought of things settling down to a more comfortable pace really freaks me out, not because of how I'd see my partner because I know I'd love him just as much, but how he'd see me. What if I'm less entertaining, or interesting? I'd still want him to see me like he did at first, though realizing that's not possible kind of breaks my idealizing little heart.


Epiphany of the day: real life scares me.

[KindOfBlue06]

@kaleidoscope The same thought scares me too. But more so, the pressure to be on my A game and keep things interesting. But if the relationship is good and the feelings are true, then both people will be continually unraveling the mysteries of each other.

[kaleidoscope]

@kaleidoscope The same thought scares me too. But more so, the pressure to be on my A game and keep things interesting. But if the relationship is good and the feelings are true, then both people will be continually unraveling the mysteries of each other.

Exactly. There's always that pressure of having to keep things interesting, and if I can't do that someday, I'm really hard on myself. I blame myself. Ideally, I want my partner and I to keep exploring each other for as long as we're together, but how often does that happen, really? :\

[adverseaffects]

I just realized how scared I am of going beyond that honeymoon phase in a relationship. I've never been in a relationship that lasted years, and that's normal because of my age, but I can't help but wonder about someday. The thought of things settling down to a more comfortable pace really freaks me out, not because of how I'd see my partner because I know I'd love him just as much, but how he'd see me. What if I'm less entertaining, or interesting? I'd still want him to see me like he did at first, though realizing that's not possible kind of breaks my idealizing little heart.


Epiphany of the day: real life scares me.

For me and a lot of people, the little intimacies of someoen seeming less perfect but still cherished and in some way yours, the small affects of friends and loved ones, make you far more tender towards them than you were in the initial phase. When someone starts showing you their weaknesses, that is when, in my opinion, you find out if you really can love them or not. If you can, that love keeps deepening because their flaws are charming.

But still since this a confession thread
I fear the same things.
I fear people abandoning me
I fear being found lacking.