[behoopd]

I agree with behoopd -- trust is very important. I have to be able to trust you, and especially trust you not to judge me. If you can trust me, then that's where things really can be great.



Generally, what else I look for is this: brains, depth (emotional), potential for humor, and attractiveness. If they have an open mind as well, in addition to some of these other traits, chances are good that I will really like you then lol. Girls who are comfortable with themselves and aren't neurotic about being perfect really I find attractive. Big turn-offs for me are girls who are extremely loud and unconscientious of others' feelings, don't care about anything or anybody, and try to argue all the time, trying to prove how "smart" they are.

I'm your perfect girl! Haha. :P

[LookingForTheDoor]

I tend to get absorbed by ENFP's. They're just full of energy and they have an imagination about as warped and weird as mine.

Other than that, I tend to gravitate towards lean girls with an unusual but pretty face. It's hard to be any more specific than that though, as beyond that I need to get to knoww the girl on her own merits.

I agree with pretty much all of this. As others have mentioned in other threads, it really seems to be an aura that the girls I find attractive exude. Unfortunately they tend to be quiet or shy as well, so I've never had a shot with them

Also, I find that ENFP women have the ability to get me to expose more than I want to about myself, at least initially...

[refugee]

I think me and my SO would have to be very like minded and share the same interests. I also have to be able to be comfortable with them and trust them.

This is pretty much how I feel. I want to be understood at a deep enough level, though I recognize that I won't be able to share all of me.