[Staryu]

guys, let's not fight anymore. im sure there must've been some misunderstandings but it's honestly not worth getting worked up over.
peace everyone?

[obz900]

Anyways, that's a rough situation. I think I can give you some decent advice considering I've been going through a similar experience lately. First of all, if you're depressed about everything, I agree that some alone time can be good. Just to clear your head and such. But if you spend too much time alone, it can have the opposite effect. When my girlfriend of 1+ years broke up with me, I spent literally months just sitting around alone watching movies and chain smoking cigarettes. That did no good for me whatsoever. It made me dwell on things that I had no control over and just turned me into a mess. Get out and do some things! Have fun! It makes things much easier.

Honestly, it would turn out better for you if you just cut off contact with your exs'. I know that at this point, it's very difficult to do that as you feel like you need to be with them and maybe something will work out, etc. But other, better people will come into your life eventually, and you're better off not wasting your time with people who "fall out of love with you." If they can do that, then they never loved you in the first place.

[Aßbiscuits]

You'll be so relieved when it goes away, which will feel even better than not being in pain in the first place. I know it may not seem like it right now but time really does heal. It can take months, I know it took me two years to get over my first love, though I lost her permanently I never had to see her with another person. Which would've been devasting for me

If you want to get over them quicker stay the hell away from them. I mean it. Stop thinking about him. The advice that worked for me was to find someone else to think about.

The only real devastating thing about unrequited love, I can tell you this without having gone through it, is that you'll never be able to fall like you did the first time again. You'll never be so näive again which is almost tragic.

[Raichan]

Hey, you know sometimes an INFP post their troubles in INFP forum for a reason. Because there are a few times when Thinkers don't understand us enough, okay? Do I need to justify why?

OMG o__o

Did I say this?

I hope I didn't sound like a bitch! =_=

[jimg1126]

i am still in love with two of my exes. and one of them is dating one of my best friends.

If you think you're in love with 2 men, you're probably not really in love with either. True love blinds you to anyone else.

[Hindsight]

OMG o__o

Did I say this?

I hope I didn't sound like a bitch! =_=

Well, thinkers might not be very good at comforting people, but at least we have thick skin. So keep on dishing it out. We can take it!

[goldentryst]

I understand you. You let feelings get the better of you. Continuing down this whirlwind of terrible choices based on feelings. Actually having said that, u guys should really heed advice from thinkers.

Oh lawd; I totally know what you mean about Feelers letting their emotions get the best of them sometime.
And it's because of my ENTP SO that I can see the richness in such straightforward advice :D
You thinkers, you. What would we feelers do without you LOL

[Master Wolf]

that sucks. Maybe you could tell them how you're feeling or maybe have some time to yourself for awhile to try to get over it.

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