1. well i have this problem ... when i manage to pull of some sucess (in career way) ... i dont wanna tell anyone about it ......... thing is everyone around me is pushing on me to do something ... and when i manage to ... i feel lame about telling them, it just feel extra stupid, it feels like boast of it ... well i know that such values are somewhat broken, unbalanced in stupid way, but still i feel stupid about telling someone how good am i that i did something good etc. ... even when they ask me i lie and tell them i dindnt do anything ..... anyone same problem ? ideas ? its somewhat pain in the ass, because parents are still bothering me with questions if iam doing something with my life etc. ... and i am not telling them any sucesses
2. second one is about happiness ... i went out yesterday with some friends and we ended up dancing at a club ... and man it felt so hugely stupid, i really couldn have a fun ... i guess its not only by situation ... although i didnt like the music, nor the overall S-ness in club ... i guess it wasnt that bad ... i couldnt have fun becasue i thought to myself ... this is really silly ... there are so much important things going in world and iam wasting my time here dancing like idiot ... i also thought something like ... i will enjoy it sometime in future, when situation will be different .. but i dunno exactly how ... also i thought to myself after leaving ... gosh there are hundred times better ways to have fun or even music to dance to .. than this remixed MTV bullshit :D ... i guess in the end it falls to same conclusion as every INFP topic ... "Oh man iam so uncompatible!"