[NotUnlikeTheWaves]

Hello everyone ^_^. Just wanted to chat it up with some fellow INFPs. I want to talk about recent events or things you have done in your life that has made you love and respect yourself even more. My friend(1) recently started to date one of my other friends. Secretly, I've had feelings for Friend 1 for as long as I've known her for. I knew that between us a relationship would not work, I tried my hardest to try to make those feelings die away. When this happened I was sad and jealous. At a point I thought I wasted my time and never wanted to talk to her because of her betrayal. I realized, if I did anything out of my jealousy and sadness, which would have been telling her that I have never stopped having feelings for her( she would spiraled into a guilt trip). I would have been the betrayer, I would have betrayed our friendship. Everything after that became clear, I knew I had to be happy for her like if I was in her position. Usually, I kneel to my emotions and horrible decisions are made. I feel proud of myself for overcoming those emotions and doing the right thing :). I want to hear your stories as well ^_^

[infpblog]

I'm very proud of my INFP blog. There was a period of five months where I stopped writing it. You know how INFPs start things but we're not so great with follow through. The blog was exciting at first because it was new. I wrote consistently from April-June 09. Then the shiny wore off because I realized how much work it involved.

I finally decided I really had something important I wanted to say and started it back up in Nov. 09. Last month I had 2100 visits lasting over a minute. 6600 Pageviews. 5 minutes as average time on the site. Most of all I get great comments from other INFPs that saying that what I'm writing is useful to them.

I've also met great people all because I overcame my that INFP tendency to leave things things when something turns out less perfect than I thought. Working through my habit of dropping projects made me realize that even though it was different than I imagined, it turned out better.

[NotUnlikeTheWaves]

I'm very proud of my INFP blog. There was a period of five months where I stopped writing it. You know how INFPs start things but we're not so great with follow through. The blog was exciting at first because it was new. I wrote consistently from April-June 09. Then the shiny wore off because I realized how much work it involved.

I finally decided I really had something important I wanted to say and started it back up in Nov. 09. Last month I had 2100 visits lasting over a minute. 6600 Pageviews. 5 minutes as average time on the site. Most of all I get great comments from other INFPs that saying that what I'm writing is useful to them.

I've also met great people all because I overcame my that INFP tendency to leave things things when something turns out less perfect than I thought. Working through my habit of dropping projects made me realize that even though it was different than I imagined, it turned out better.

That's great! I'll check out your blog :D. It annoys me that I set such high standards for any project I do, then when it comes out even a bit different I abandon it.

[SenhorFrio]

A while ago my ENFJ friend told me he has spent whole days thinking about the stuff i say, i'm alway telling people my philoshpoical ideas and when i found out someone actually really appreaicated them i felt so good

[caraez]

A while ago my ENFJ friend told me he has spent whole days thinking about the stuff i say, i'm alway telling people my philoshpoical ideas and when i found out someone actually really appreaicated them i felt so good

I would love if this happened to me!

As for me, I stood up to someone who has given me a lot of hurt. For a while, but more so lately. It was only a email, and I have no reply yet, but I've never stood up to anyone for hurting me besides family before.

[Memphisto]

I drove across the country by myself last week. Something I never thought I'd have the courage to do! And I'm so glad I did... I sooo enjoyed seeing the landscape change as I drove, just being alone with my thoughts and doing whatever I wanted whenever I wanted. It's great, an experience I'll never forget. I really needed time to clear my head and ponder on what I want out of my future. I've needed this time for years...but only recently found the courage to do it.

[obz900]

I drove across the country by myself last week. Something I never thought I'd have the courage to do! And I'm so glad I did... I sooo enjoyed seeing the landscape change as I drove, just being alone with my thoughts and doing whatever I wanted whenever I wanted. It's great, an experience I'll never forget. I really needed time to clear my head and ponder on what I want out of my future. I've needed this time for years...but only recently found the courage to do it.

This sounds awesome. I'm doing something similar this August.