[Spooky]

Suppose that Superman was about to fight the toughest enemy he ever had to face. (Hypothetically) I'm not a comic book reader so I don't know who his arch enemy is, besides Lex Luther. The only problem is, his toughest enemy is made out of cryptonite. That's right! Don't ask me how that's possible. If a man can be made out of steel, then a man can be made out of cryptonite. So the very enemy that he needs all of his superhuman strength to overcome, absorbs his strength and leaves him weak and helpless.

That's what women do to me. They seem to be attracted to strong men for the most part. Whenever I'm feeling overly-confident, dominant, and self-assured is when women seem to flirt with me the most. But as soon as a woman who I'm interested in, starts to show significant interest in me, I become weak and vulnerable to her and I think that's a turn-off in the long run.

I can't help it. I need advice.

[KerryLee]

Suppose that Superman was about to fight the toughest enemy he ever had to face. (Hypothetically) I'm not a comic book reader so I don't know who his arch enemy is, besides Lex Luther. The only problem is, his toughest enemy is made out of cryptonite. That's right! Don't ask me how that's possible. If a man can be made out of steel, then a man can be made out of cryptonite. So the very enemy that he needs all of his superhuman strength to overcome, absorbs his strength and leaves him weak and helpless.

That's what women do to me. They seem to be attracted to strong men for the most part. Whenever I'm feeling overly-confident, dominant, and self-assured is when women seem to flirt with me the most. But as soon as a woman who I'm interested in, starts to show significant interest in me, I become weak and vulnerable to her and I think that's a turn-off in the long run.

I can't help it. I need advice.

Oh my, I could kiss you hahaha that is so not a turn off at all, and if you go around in life saying things like that instead of the other "I hate women" stuff I'm sure you'd get loads of women
See women can be equally weakened by men, it's just every woman is uniquely different as are men. What could be more wonderful, a strong man who goes weak for a woman, delicious
Instead of trying to think of some way of being what women collectively want in any man, just be you! Because, seriously there is no such thing, all that male/female stuff is just b*llsh*t. It's just individuals, individually wanting an individua. Who will like them, as much as they like them, for exactly who they are. (huh? You know what I mean) Women attracted to the kind of man you are, will be ..well ..attracted to you, simple.
Honestly there's no set rule.

[Sleepy]

I have been quite isolated from the dating scene most of my life. But the past month I have been on some dates. It is really unusual for me. I usually sit at home waiting for the perfect girl to come and knock at my door.

To me It helps to experiment and date a lot of different people. It doesn't have to be serious, just going for a coffee and do something fun, maybe some flirting. That helps me evoke my interest and joy of life and the opposite sex in general. I also get more confident, and meeting someone potentially interesting doesn't feel overwhelming. And I get to meet nice people.

So my advice would be: Think Se :). Meet a lot of women, even though you don't feel attracted to them in the beginning, meet them still. It doesn't even have to be a proper date. Keep it simple. Expect some disappointments, that's life. Think that as your experience grows, you will also change a little as a person, and that will open up new possibilities. Begin by reducing your time online (unless you do online dating), that's what I'm gonna do.

This is from a person who doesn't know much about dating, but is trying to learn. :-)

[KerryLee]

I have been quite isolated from the dating scene most of my life. But the past month I have been on some dates. It is really unusual for me. I usually sit at home waiting for the perfect girl to come and knock at my door.

To me It helps to experiment and date a lot of different people. It doesn't have to be serious, just going for a coffee and do something fun, maybe some flirting. That helps me evoke my interest and joy of life and the opposite sex in general. I also get more confident, and meeting someone potentially interesting doesn't feel overwhelming. And I get to meet nice people.

So my advice would be: Think Se :). Meet a lot of women, even though you don't feel attracted to them in the beginning, meet them still. It doesn't even have to be a proper date. Keep it simple. Expect some disappointments, that's life. Think that as your experience grows, you will also change a little as a person, and that will open up new possibilities. Begin by reducing your time online (unless you do online dating), that's what I'm gonna do.

This is from a person who doesn't know much about dating, but is trying to learn. :-)

very perceptive

[Irulan]

pshht

That is not a turn-off. It's cute and endearing. Girls with sense should take it as a sign that you like them more than the overly-confident (and possibly self-absorbed) guy.