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This is a discussion on INFPs - Weird dating experiences? within the INFP Forum - The Idealists forums, part of the NF's Temperament Forum- The Dreamers category; I saw the other thread about promiscuity, and I wondered if any of you have had crazy dating experiences like ...

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    INFP - The Idealists

    INFPs - Weird dating experiences?

    I saw the other thread about promiscuity, and I wondered if any of you have had crazy dating experiences like me. I have a tendency to attract complete nut jobs (literal ones) who I usually have to come up with a plan to escape. I've always wondered what was wrong with me that I always attracted people who meant me harm and never guys I wanted to be with. I don't dress promiscuously ( I used to, but then I got even more unwanted attention from scary people, so now I dress really really conservative even though it might be uncomfortable or weather inappropriate), and I'm not loud, gregarious or otherwise attention seeking. My friends don't have this problem, so could it be personality type? Do any of you have similar problems?


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    INFP - The Idealists

    When you say you attract complete nutjobs do you mean that they're cutely eccentric - or are they real nutjobs?

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    INFP - The Idealists

    NO, genuine nutjobs.

    Quote Originally Posted by GroovyShamrock View Post
    When you say you attract complete nutjobs do you mean that they're cutely eccentric - or are they real nutjobs?
    "Lotion in the basket" nut jobs. "I'm gonna kill you" nut jobs. Not the fun kind.
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    One time I dated a kid for a month or so who told me when he was drunk he had sex with his dog. I was so mortified I left then and there and never spoke to him again.
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    Quote Originally Posted by murderegina View Post
    One time I dated a kid for a month or so who told me when he was drunk he had sex with his dog. I was so mortified I left then and there and never spoke to him again.
    I laughed. Hard.
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    Quote Originally Posted by murderegina View Post
    One time I dated a kid for a month or so who told me when he was drunk he had sex with his dog. I was so mortified I left then and there and never spoke to him again.

    hahahha lol
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    Quote Originally Posted by Traigo View Post
    "Lotion in the basket" nut jobs. "I'm gonna kill you" nut jobs. Not the fun kind.
    Oh... That kind. No I can't say I've ever had that kind of experience, thankfully...

    Quote Originally Posted by murderegina View Post
    One time I dated a kid for a month or so who told me when he was drunk he had sex with his dog. I was so mortified I left then and there and never spoke to him again.
    He wasn't serious, was he?!
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    INFP - The Idealists

    Crazies smell sympathy/empathy like sharks smell blood.You can't show any kindness to this kind or else you'll newer get rid of them.Even if it's uncharacteristic of you, at the first sign of unbalanced behavior (and by now I guess you already know what that is) just cold assly fuck you them and walk away! If they start following you, you can interpret the situation to be threatening and run/use self defense.These are my advise, for you since you are a girl, for guys it's usually different 'cause the crazy bitches most likely just talk shit behind your back if you refuse them, but as a female you should be even more cautious of violence.

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    INFP - The Idealists

    Quote Originally Posted by Raakakaakao View Post
    Crazies smell sympathy/empathy like sharks smell blood.You can't show any kindness to this kind or else you'll newer get rid of them.Even if it's uncharacteristic of you, at the first sign of unbalanced behavior (and by now I guess you already know what that is) just cold assly fuck you them and walk away! If they start following you, you can interpret the situation to be threatening and run/use self defense.These are my advise, for you since you are a girl, for guys it's usually different 'cause the crazy bitches most likely just talk shit behind your back if you refuse them, but as a female you should be even more cautious of violence.
    Don't I know it.

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    INFP - The Idealists

    I think the easisest solution to your problem is, if your friends don't have the same problem as you said, is to ask your friends to hook you up with some balanced guy?
    Last edited by Raakakaakao; 03-12-2010 at 05:25 AM. Reason: typo as usual :D
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