I have had a lot of upsetting, weird, and often painful encounters with people in general. For instance, I was walking into a movie theater with a friend, when this strange woman appears out of no where. The woman shoves me and screams at the top of her lungs, "You're in my way." It was not a little shove, mind you. She shoved me with such a force from behind, that when I hit the ground, it was audible. Both of my legs were skinned up and down-- bleeding. The woman did not look back. She kept on walking.
It disturbs me to think that there might be something about me that provokes such demonstrations of aggression from random strangers, but then, I realize in most cases it is not my fault. I did not do anything to that woman. I did not say anything or do anything. If I had known she was behind me and in a hurry, I would have gladly let her pass me, but she did not say excuse me or use any kind of civilized communication to inform me that I was frustrating her. She could have pushed my friend, but she pushed me. Anyone could have a random encounter with an angry person.
So, instead of thinking of myself attracting uncivil, mean-spirited, and negative people, I imagine myself attracting good and positive people. I imagine it all the time. It sounds like a ridiculous thing to do, but oddly, it has really worked! The powers that be have been very kind to me lately.
Maybe, things will change for you too.