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Do other INFP's find it hard to decide what to do with their lives?

INFP Forum - The Idealists Thread, Do other INFP's find it hard to decide what to do with their lives? in NF's Temperament Forum- The Dreamers; *Raises hand, sighs in resignation and places head on table.*...
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Old 03-02-2010, 05:48 AM   #11
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*Raises hand, sighs in resignation and places head on table.*
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Old 03-02-2010, 05:54 AM   #12
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Yes, I do.

But in general I tend not too beat myself up about it. I prefer to focus on being rather than on doing. It doesn't really matter what I do as long as I'm myself and as long as what I do doesn't go against my values.
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Old 03-02-2010, 07:08 AM   #13
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Yes, and I beat myself up real bad over it..I'm trying to change this habit.
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Old 03-02-2010, 07:31 AM   #14
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i'm hope you find something you like, maybe you could study at home, something part time you would enjoy, whilst you work?
Yeah, I think I'm gonna have to try that. I've tried going back to university twice now to find something that's a little more career applicable then my first degree. But each time I lose my motivation for school after a year or so and end up withdrawing, only to be back in the same place. I'm actually supposed to write an abnormal psych test in 2 hours which I'm going to fail because I just didn't have any motivation to study for it. I think I'm going to try to get a decent job on campus, maybe in a library if possible, and then maybe just do courses part time.
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I totally have this problem. I've always had work of some kind, but I've never been able to mentally settle on a career path. I don't enjoy the thought of being locked in to a certain line of work for the rest of my life. It makes me feel constrained, trapped. I really want to find work that I thoroughly enjoy, something that in itself is worth living for, and is something that is also important for the world, something that benefits other people in a profound way. It's a really difficult task in fact.

I've begun to accept the possibility that I will never have a single career path, and that I may just drift from one interest to another. That idea allures me because it's very dynamic and interesting. Perhaps that's folly and foolishness, though. I suppose it's worth a try.
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Old 03-02-2010, 10:12 AM   #16
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yeah I have absolutely no clue what I'm gonna do with my life. I take classes I like in college and have a major just to feel some kind of 'direction', and dont get me wrong, theyre great classes and I love the majors but I have no idea what I'm gonna do with it or what I'll do after I graduate. Probably one of my biggest flaws, I can be very indecisive.
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Old 03-02-2010, 10:41 AM   #17
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I still have no idea what I want to do with my life. All I know is that it'll involve some form of art. I'm just... totally aimless.
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sorry for hijacking your thread...... i'm an intp and i have this problem as well
i kinda figured most young people did
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I have that issue big time. I'm wrapping up my sophomore year in college, and I'm still undeclared. I just can't find something that I really want to do for the rest of my life.
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sorry for hijacking your thread...... i'm an intp and i have this problem as well
i kinda figured most young people did
Young is a state of mind, hence why some people past thirty still don't know what they are passionate about. Not that i'm pressuring them to do anything or make any decisions, it's entirely up them, just an observation I have noticed.
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