hmm, song quote would cover my thoughts on this
"In a moment you will see my other side
When Iím confronted
My demeanor turns from Jekyll into Hyde"
quote from sacrifice by Disturbed
from my personal point of view i'm generally easy going, i hate confrontation, i hate manipulation, i hate conflict of any kind and i always try to avoid it, but theres a tipping point, if im pushed far enough for long enough something trips then its more of an all bets are off situation, instead of avoiding conflict i'll come out fighting, not because i want to hurt anyone but because i want it to end, i want things to stop and if im pushed far enough im not that choosy about my tactics, i stop careing about the path and just go for the result.