Unable to maintain social groups?

**sweethomealabama** · 09-10-2012 01:09 PM

Originally Posted by Totalbrit

This is going to sound harsh but a lot of the time I just move on because I am bored. I like change. The only friends I keep are the ones that are really worth keeping, all the others I may be sad to see go but I get over it.

So yes, I have problems maintaining my social group.

I, too Love change! i have tendency to want to FLEE a social group fairly quickly,but, am working o nthis.

**AnnieeBubble** · 09-10-2012 01:56 PM

I wish I could just leave my social group, but there really doesn't seem like there is any other groups at school who would be better? Also, if I just left then they would all be very sad/angry at me :/ Again, all their conversation seems kinda tedious and meaningless now, so I often zone out. This probably distances myself even further so i really can't relate at all anymore :/

Right now, I'm really working on keeping my heart as open as possible but it's hard... Ah why do I always sound so depressing lately? Sorry, everyone! Anyway, you all deserve great friends.. now just thinking how great INFP groups would be! Ahh..

**sweethomealabama** · 09-10-2012 02:56 PM

Originally Posted by AnnieeBubble

I wish I could just leave my social group, but there really doesn't seem like there is any other groups at school who would be better? Also, if I just left then they would all be very sad/angry at me :/ Again, all their conversation seems kinda tedious and meaningless now, so I often zone out. This probably distances myself even further so i really can't relate at all anymore :/

Right now, I'm really working on keeping my heart as open as possible but it's hard... Ah why do I always sound so depressing lately? Sorry, everyone! Anyway, you all deserve great friends.. now just thinking how great INFP groups would be! Ahh..

What would be the dynamic of a group of 10 INFPs...? Maybe we wouldn't communicate, just "get" others intuitively and then zone out...likely, there would be too much comfort there and us INFPs who loathe social groups would REALLY be confused!!

**Nintaku** · 09-10-2012 04:05 PM

Originally Posted by sweethomealabama

What would be the dynamic of a group of 10 INFPs...? Maybe we wouldn't communicate, just "get" others intuitively and then zone out...likely, there would be too much comfort there and us INFPs who loathe social groups would REALLY be confused!!

I'd end up seeing the confused people, and playing with them.