[thistled bones]

You should feel flattered he was making a move on you. If you didn't like what he was doing, you have to do something to show that you're not interested. I take it since you're an INFP like me, you can be passive about things and bottle them inside. Don't. Show that you are uncomfortable with the guy touching you like that and you don't want him to, at least until after you two get to know each other.

I know I should've said something. You're absolutely right. I talked to him today and I told him that. But I still don't think it was very appropriate of him to be touching me. I don't even know his last name.
I wasn't even leading him on prior to this. He had no reason to think I was attracted to him. He doesn't know who I am in the slightest. It crossed a line for me, so I was highly offended.

But yes, I was being passive. I was kind of paralyzed.



I was even trying to give him hints to stay away from me before he actually full on started putting his hands on me.

EDIT: I didn't even mention how, at this party, my roommate and I were approached by two other guys when our 'friends' weren't with us. we were standing by the wall and before they came up to us I heard one of them say "which one do you want?"

the one proceeded to grind on my friend, and the other had his face uncomfortably close to mine. they started getting aggressive when I said to leave us alone, but I stood my ground and they finally left. They were drunk off their asses.

I definitely let them know I wasn't interested, and I definitely wasn't flattered.

I do know that situation was a little different, but everyone could tell i was highly disturbed by it and this kid STILL touched me. I was in a horrendous mood.

[Joseph]

@thistled bones Haha welcome to college parties! Full of awkward experiences, regrets, and the occasional found gold.

No. Guys don't have a right to touch girls just because they are horny and the girl hasn't said "no" yet. I do agree that she should let him know that physical contact is unwanted, but I think guys should keep their hands to themselves when it comes to girls they barely know.

College parties, especially with strangers, is all about hooking up and making moves on people you barely know. This type of thing is common and not out of line. You may have a personal issue with it, but it's not the norm. It's like going to a bar and expecting not to be hit on. If you don't want that type of experience, don't go to college parties.