[Master Wolf]

Text, say you had a great time, and set up the next date. The only other talking you do should be to build rapport or your rep. Face to face is way easier to connect, so more texting or phoning is bad, unless face to face is overwhelming.

[dreamon]

just do it already :]

[ThatOne]

You're using Ti, stop it.

I understand you were being serious, but that made me laugh a bit too much.

[infpaul]

Man just freekin' CALL HER! as much as they go on about gender equality, the female of the species rarely initiates things in this department (though full kudos to those who do!)

[Justin Opmeer]

I understand you were being serious, but that made me laugh a bit too much.

Haha, still I'm glad you did. It's how I see it, though. "Man, I have very deep feelings for her and I really want to be with her, lets find some way of rationalization to say that I don't have to act on it!"

[doublexuan]

There is no doubt that you should be the one calling, and please don't wait too long. Call whenever you feel like it (not in a clingy way). Confidence is attractive.

[Bago]

There is no doubt that you should be the one calling, and please don't wait too long. Call whenever you feel like it (not in a clingy way). Confidence is attractive.

It's not just confidence sometimes, it's the sincerity, when you want to see someone, and then you call, it comes across very differently than if you were half hearted about something and was unsure, and started to hesitate.

I did that before when I was younger, and I called a guy up, and he happened to be watching football, and then I was totally embarrassed, felt small, made an excuse, apologised, and then he got annoyed, cos I started to backtrack... and then I was still embarrassed, and then he got more annoyed that I am not saying anything cos I made him miss football. Then I hanged the phone up! Oh dear God....

Now I just ring if I wanted to hear someone's voice, and just laughed if I happened to have interrupted them. I add a disclaimer now, "sorry, did I interrupted you?", "I just wanted to see how you are doing."

Sincerity counts, a LOT.

[Kaspa]

Thanks for the responses. I called her, got a date and she called it off day before date. She told that she was not so attracted to me. I think I read the wrong signals, or she was confused about her feelings. But that's okay, time to move on with life. I'm positive that I tried however, uncertainity is a rather uncomfortable state.

[Ahlicks]

Aw man :( That's ok bro,
“Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things that you didn't do than by the ones you did do. So throw off the bowlines. Sail away from the safe harbor. Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. Discover.” - Mark Twain

[Bago]

Thanks for the responses. I called her, got a date and she called it off day before date. She told that she was not so attracted to me. I think I read the wrong signals, or she was confused about her feelings. But that's okay, time to move on with life. I'm positive that I tried however, uncertainity is a rather uncomfortable state.

Proud of you ! :)