How do INFPs judge physical attractiveness?


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This is a discussion on How do INFPs judge physical attractiveness? within the INFP Forum - The Idealists forums, part of the NF's Temperament Forum- The Dreamers category; Originally Posted by adverseaffects I'm 5'2" xD definitely not tall sorry, i'm petit sized but even if I was tall ...

  1. #31
    INFP - The Idealists

    Quote Originally Posted by adverseaffects View Post
    I'm 5'2" xD
    definitely not tall sorry, i'm petit sized

    but even if I was tall and brunette, it would still make sense. My physical qualities have nothing to do with my response..?
    See. This is why shallow topics are "shallow." They result in things like this. You can't even make a joke about a shallow topic without someone getting irritated or taking it personally, which is why I said the thread wasn't a good idea in the first place, but in trying to make the OP feel comfortable, went along anyway, just to have to deal with you.

    I was joking saying "sorry ladies" as in only have tall brunettes have a shot with me, and so when you said "as if we all want you" i thought you meant "tall brunettes" but now realize you mean women, which I honestly don't care about because I was just making a light hearted joke, don't think all women want me, and don't appreciate that you think I'm cocky and arrogant.


  2. #32
    INTJ - The Scientists

    veiny hands?


    #oddthingsIlearnedaboutwomentoday


    this has come up a couple times since I've joined this site now, haha, I never realized how common this is.
    my hands are the opposite of this, they can play a couple instruments though, with any luck that gets them a couple bonus points.




    I don't necessarily have a criteria for attractiveness, I generally really like short girls with nice eyes, and like most guys I enjoy the curvy bits, but even those guidelines are bendy. I'm convinced I can find anyone attractive.
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  3. #33
    INFP - The Idealists


    Quote Originally Posted by Souled In View Post
    See. This is why shallow topics are "shallow." They result in things like this. You can't even make a joke about a shallow topic without someone getting irritated or taking it personally, which is why I said the thread wasn't a good idea in the first place, but in trying to make the OP feel comfortable, went along anyway, just to have to deal with you.
    uhh I was joking. I don't think you understood what my response was saying at all. You're also being quite rude to me and I don't see what warrants that.

    edit: saw you're edit. You may be taking this too personally. You responded that you didn't want to hurt any of the feelings of the girls on the thread by stating your type......
    my response was not meant to insult you but to be a witty quip on how silly that assumption is. You can choose to take it however you want.
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  4. #34
    ENFP - The Inspirers

    i have very long, hard, erect fingers :)

    I don't get the hand thing either. I've heard it from some girls in real life too. I mean, I guess hands should be well proportioned, moisturized, not sweaty, and warm, but other than that I don't understand what else can make them sexy. I guess it's like guys with a foot fetish. My only requirement for a women's feet is that they are smaller than mine, and don't smell bad..
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  5. #35
    INFP - The Idealists


    Quote Originally Posted by Acey View Post
    i have very long, hard, erect fingers :)

    I don't get the hand thing either. I've heard it from some girls in real life too. I mean, I guess hands should be well proportioned, moisturized, not sweaty, and warm, but other than that I don't understand what else can make them sexy. I guess it's like guys with a foot fetish. My only requirement for a women's feet is that they are smaller than mine, and don't smell bad..
    I wish I could explain the beauty of hands... hands are mechanically very detailed and works of art in themselves... they can express a lot in a very subtle way...
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  6. #36
    ENFP - The Inspirers

    Quote Originally Posted by adverseaffects View Post
    I wish I could explain the beauty of hands... hands are mechanically very detailed and works of art in themselves... they can express a lot in a very subtle way...
    I googled nice hands and found this:


    Does he have nice hands?
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  7. #37
    INFP - The Idealists


    Quote Originally Posted by Acey View Post
    I googled nice hands and found this:


    Does he have nice hands?
    His nails are nice & what I can see of his knuckles are nice. Wrists and thumb are lovely. I definitely wouldn't complain.
    On another note: Another thing I find just adorable is when men are really doting fathers (biology is telling me: he will care for your offspring PICK THAT ONE lol)

    Possibly the ideal hand would have longer fingers.
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  8. #38
    ENFP - The Inspirers

    Thanks for the insight @adverseaffects.

    The hell is this though.. 30 bucks for a mani at my local spa?? Gotta be shitting me.

  9. #39
    INFP - The Idealists

    I agree with most all of you. It's the mannerism's and personality of the woman that enhances my favorable or unfavorable vision of how attractive she is to me. I've found from personal experience that all my life, I've mostly been attracted to women that many of my friend as well as society in general deem as "average" or "plain". A woman who doesn't, or only subtly, makes an attempt to highlight their features unnaturally (tans, make-up, hair dye, etc.) would likely catch my eye if I knew nothing else about them, such as in spotting a stranger across a room.

    The whole stereotypical blonde girl with the make-up and earrings and all that do nothing for me unless I see that they are quirky and have a strong personality aspect that I can relate to or admire. Whether I'm overlooking their inward beauty do to my own limited judgements (from ideals, experience and whatnot), or if it's because the type of personality I am drawn to would rather be individualistic, non-conformist, and low maintenance, I have seldom found myself attracted to a woman who fits the Barbie "mold".
    This of course isn't a prejudice toward blondes, as a Kim Kardashian wannabe, for example, wouldn't do it for me. Contrary to popular belief, I think she's more ugly than pretty physically although I've heard that she's a real sweetheart. If you take more than 10 minutes (generally) making yourself up, chances are I will not notice the beauty about you that most other guys or girls would.

    I would likely notice a dark-haired woman before a light-haired one mainly based on reasons I've mentioned. Quirky, inward, aloof, unique, passionate, artistic, flawed, have some spunk, and/or really nice women seem to perk my interest. Laid back characteristics, flexible, funny, goofy, a little bit dorky... Like walks on the beach, candlelit dinners, and loves animals.....all of these enhance their attractiveness in my eyes.
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    INFP - The Idealists


    Also, men's backs can be a total turn on. I know the entire body can be pleasing/displeasing but certain areas you notice more. I believe it is because er the back a woman holds onto ok i am getting embarrassed but you understand why a slightly muscled smooth back could be a turn on
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