[Incline]

3) Perceived condescension
Insensitivity
Focus on "it" or "task" rather than on the individual's needs
Failure to acknowledge efforts
Judgmental

[jennandtonic]

What fires you off? What are the triggers that make you angry?

According to an MBTI book* I have been reading, there are certain sets of traits that arouse anger in each of the four perceiving/judging combinations (ST, SF, NT, and NF). Which of the following sets of traits annoy, irritate, anger, or exasperate you?

Note: There may be something in each set that you identify with, but select the set containing the largest number of your anger "buttons."

1) Failure to respond to personal inquiry
Failure to acknowledge hands-on efforts
Lack of attention to personal needs

2) Lack of attention to detail
Lack of verification of information
Failure to follow through as specifically described
Inefficiency

3) Perceived condescension
Insensitivity
Focus on "it" or "task" rather than on the individual's needs
Failure to acknowledge efforts
Judgmental

4) Incompetence
Irrationality
Lack of logical basis for decisions
Failure to address competence after it has been identified


I will post which perceiving/judging combo is correlated to each set of traits after a number of people have answered. :)


*Pearman, Roger R.; Albritton, Sarah C. (2010-09-01). I'm Not Crazy, I'm Just Not You: The Real Meaning of the 16 Personality Types (p. 98). Nicholas Brealey Publishing.

I'm just going to rank them in order (angriest to least angry):

3
4
1
2

3 makes me QUITE angry. 4 irritates me. 1 and 2 only just annoy me at times, depending on the situation or my mood.

[Rather Unusual]

3 and 4. Mainly 3.
To be fair its not that difficult to figure out the correlations =P

[The Nurturing narcissist]

These all set me off equally, because they are all inconsiderate

[Agape]

It has been so long since I feel something similar to anger...that appears to be like a fleeting dream. I don't think I even have a trigger to pull off at this point of my life. But in the past I was identified with #3..specially the part of Insensitivity and not focusing on the individuals needs.

[Noelle]

For me I'd say 4 most, then 3 next. There's nothing worse than trying to rationalize with someone who isn't rational or who refuses to accept fact as fact.


Really the only thing that could trump that in 3 is: Focus on "it" or "task" rather than on the individual's needs.

[ibage]

3
4
1
2

Not much to be said here. 3 and 4 get me going quite a bit as I think they're the worst.

[geekofalltrades]

A few of the things in 3, and all of them in 4. More than anything, what pulls my trigger is cruelty.

[Elinor Dashwood]

In general life, 3. At work, 4.

[Pjb]

Definitely #3 for me and my ESFP husband chose #2.