[Blue Butterfly]

For each personality type I would like to know What do you sturggle with the most in life? Problems you try to overcome but seem to never find that perfect solution? Please answer only in your personality type. I want to learn more about each type so I can grow as a person.

For me as an INFP, my biggest problem is extream difficulties dealing with other people. I have very intense emotions that makes life very difficult at times.

[Irulan]

I have difficulty coming outside of myself, being myself around others, letting people see me, etc.

I would say that my most major issues lie in this area.

Sometimes I subconsciously act in ways that are totally not me just to throw people off so that they can't see me. I don't even mean to do it, and it annoys me when I realize I have. I'm a very private person, but it would be nice to have a person or two who can see me, you know?

I have a feeling that this has more to do with my enneagram than my MBTI, but we'll see if other INFJs have similar thoughts.

[decided]

I get caught up in my Ni, daydreaming and fantasising. I need to improve my self-discipline and self-motivation.

The biggest problem in my life right now though, is dealing with stress. We had to move house this month, and I am supporting a friend who is leaving her husband. Also getting Christmas presents sorted, and finalising stuff at work before I go on holiday. Can't wait till Christmas!

[Blue Butterfly]

I have difficulty coming outside of myself, being myself around others, letting people see me, etc.

I would say that my most major issues lie in this area.

Sometimes I subconsciously act in ways that are totally not me just to throw people off so that they can't see me. I don't even mean to do it, and it annoys me when I realize I have. I'm a very private person, but it would be nice to have a person or two who can see me, you know?

I have a feeling that this has more to do with my enneagram than my MBTI, but we'll see if other INFJs have similar thoughts.

I have seen other INFJ's do that. So what do you think would be wrong about letting people see the real you? Why do you have a need to throw people off?

[mrkedi]

i don't understand how i should interact with others. when i a m with my friends, i always wonder am I doing the right thing (like did i do somthing rude or anything equivalent) or if they don't talk to me anymore is that mean they don't like me... somthing like that/

[Blue Butterfly]

I get caught up in my Ni, daydreaming and fantasising. I need to improve my self-discipline and self-motivation.

The biggest problem in my life right now though, is dealing with stress. We had to move house this month, and I am supporting a friend who is leaving her husband. Also getting Christmas presents sorted, and finalising stuff at work before I go on holiday. Can't wait till Christmas!

I think daydreaming and fantasizing is a good thing. But I am INFP and do that a lot anyway.

[Irulan]

I have seen other INFJ's do that. So what do you think would be wrong about letting people see the real you? Why do you have a need to throw people off?

Nothing would be wrong with it, necessarily. I just have this intense fear of rejection. (That's my INFJ 5 combination... ugh.) I'd rather just sit in a hole for my life than be rejected by one person. I'm aware that I'm not the most normal person in the world, and to me that makes rejection more likely.

I think that what decided said is more purely INFJ. I do have major issues with wasting my time daydreaming, and then I also get stressed out because I commit myself to too much. When I get stressed out I resort back to daydreaming in order to relieve the stress, then I have even less time to fulfill my committments. But I have to fulfill them all by whatever deadline, and that is when I become randomly psychopathic. hahaha

[decided]

I think daydreaming and fantasizing is a good thing. But I am INFP and do that a lot anyway.

Oh it is. :o)

It just becomes a problem when I don't get things done. I make plans, and I write to do lists but don't always follow through as much as I want to, simply because I'm off in my own world.

[Blue Butterfly]

i don't understand how i should interact with others. when i a m with my friends, i always wonder am I doing the right thing (like did i do somthing rude or anything equivalent) or if they don't talk to me anymore is that mean they don't like me... somthing like that/

That is always uncomfortable to me too. If they just stop talking to me. Did I do something or is it something going on in their lives? I feel for you on that one.

[addle1618]

I feel I am not achieving as much as I should. Oh and I hate emotions and having crushes and stuff too.