I'm wondering, if, as INFJs, you've ever been obsessed about how you look physically over how you appear to people mentally..and if you've ever grown out of this.
My sister is an INFJ and everything that comes out of her mouth is "He's ugly, she has bad style, I'm just so beautiful". I know she has depth in there, but I'm wanting to know if this is a phase all INFJs go through or if this is just something she has a problem with. I'm so sick of it too.
Also, she's obsessed with getting revenge on someone. She will deny it, but it's pretty flipping obvious and childish.
Please tell me there is hope. I have to live in the same house with her for a while longer and I don't think I can stand it anymore.
Or someone tell me how I can deal with her. I know it's suprising that an INFP and an INFJ can't get along very well, but I'm just hoping something will click in her brain to the point where she goes "I don't need a boyfriend. Life is so much more than that." Or something more than just skin deep beauty.