This is a discussion on Gay and INFJ within the INFJ Forum - The Protectors forums, part of the NF's Temperament Forum- The Dreamers category; Originally Posted by charlotteg2761 It may be because NFs are more self-reflective that they're more likely to see these things ...
I'm also gay and INFJ - actually found this site through looking around the net for other gay INFJ's. I think we might be pretty rare :(
Good luck in your quest to find the perfect man!!!
I'm straight as an arrow, though people have thought i was gay before because i can actually be just friends with a girl and have a lot of gay friends. I also held hands with my gay friend walking across campus to class as a birthday present for him and openly talk about it...that may have also triggered some suspicion...
Not exactly, but it's kind of a funny case with me. I'm convinced I'm a transgendered lesbian, actually. I can be very effeminate and uncomfortable with my own masculinity, but at the same time I'm still attracted to women.
I'm a gay INFJ! I really have no idea about the correlation, but it's an interesting thought. I've never met any other gay INFJ's out there -- it seems that there are lots of gay male NF's in general, though.
I am, as it seems, only attracted to females.