So, what is it about being an INFJ that attracts others to us? Friendships, romances, helping others, etc. What is so attractive about us INFJs?
If you're an INFJ, feel free to guess. If you're another type and have been attracted to INFJs before, feel free to tell us what hooked you in. If you're another type and find that you could be attracted to INFJs, assuming you'd ever meet one irl, why is that?
I'm just curious about this, because here on the INFJ forum, you have posts from INFJs discussing topics about such things as viewing life from behind a glass wall. Meanwhile, other types (especially ENTPs, lol) are posting all kinds of strategies to get us attracted to them, because they're apparently coo-coo crazy for us.
I'm very introverted and I feel socially inept and clumsy, though clearly my Fe compensates for that well enough. Despite the fact that being around other people makes me feel awkward and exhausted, I still observe that several women throughout my shift at work will attempt to flirt with me, and in general more people would befriend me if I were less introverted as well.
I wonder what it is though? I'm nothing special in the looks department. I'd say average at best. Nor do I actively pursue relationships (friends or romances). And despite my shyness (almost a form of people-phobia, in a way), people still seem to enjoy being around me. Fe must really be a miracle worker or something, lol.
Anyhoo, what's your perspective? How's it for you in regards to this?