Aloha, crazy kids!
I'm somewhat curious to find out which types of women are not only attracted to but are compatible with INFJ men (in general). I've read several times on these forums of other types of men either seeking or trying to be with INFJ women, but so few mentions of women who seek out and enjoy the company of INFJ men.
While I'm currently not interested in being involved romantically with anyone, all the relationships I've had in the past were years ago, long before I knew about personality types. While one relationship in particular went exceptionally well, I have no idea what type she was. So when the hopeless romantic in me considers getting back out into the realm of potential SOs, it makes me curious to know more about compatibility and such.
Profiles suggest that ENTPs are our best fit, though I think those profiles tend to be skewed to male ENTPs with female INFJs (which also seems to be a predominant INFJ-seeking situation on the forums too). I've read posts from several female ENTPs who suggest that we're too introverted, and/or too sensitive for their liking. If that's the case, we're back to square one.
So, with all that said, here's my questions for you:
INFJ Guys: Which types (assuming you know) of women have you had the most success with, even if it didn't work out in the end? Which seemed to really be into you?
Gals of any type: Feel free to post your thoughts as well in regards to how attracted you are to INFJ guys. Do any of you happen to feel as though an INFJ guy would be an ideal match for you? If so, what are the factors for that?
I realize that INFJs in general can be hard to find or difficult to know or that sort of thing. Guys in particular, not only by the simple math of being so rare, but because society as a whole often forces us to hide, and/or act in ways other than an INFJ (such as using Ti a lot more).
So a lot of this could be based on theory over personal experience, but that's cool. :o)