This is provoked by a conversation in the Ask and INFJ a Relationship Question thread. I didn't want to expand on it too much there because I don't like to derail threads and I also want more opinions.
Honesty is definitely on the list of values for INFJs. We all can probably agree that we hate when people lie to us. I'm interested to see what some of you INFJs have to say about it. In particular, this quote is what really got me thinking.
-What do you do when you find out someone is lying to you?
-Do you ever let them think you believe them to find out how far they will take it?
-What about minor lies? (Lying about things to impress people, lying to make people feel better, etc. Lies that are mostly harmless.)
-What about major lies? (Lies that build friendships and relationships based on the falsehood, lies to "work the system", etc. Lies that are for personal gain.
-What do you do if someone is lying to you?)
-To someone close to you?
And anything else you'd like to say on the subject is always welcome.