I had an issue with a coworker today....and it clicked over the course of venting that part of my conflict with her is a problem I've had before. Also, I realized that in my (juvenile) response, I was acting in a way that was bound to piss off an INFJ. >.> This got me to thinking....annoying the crap out of an INFJ intentionally, while it will get me the doorslam response and if not solve the issue, at least keep her from talking to me probably isn't the best course of action for dealing with someone I dislike.
But I'm rambling...
Basically, what annoys me about her is that she has a very 2 dimensionally view of the world. Everything is very black and white and anyone who disagrees with her is wrong, and therefore evil and untrustworthy. I've found the immature INFJ has a very strong sense inherent moral superiority over other people...as if they're more capable of fully understanding a situation and have the knowledge and caring to resolve it.
Unfortunately, this annoys the crap out of me. People aren't universally the same in temperament and reason...and there's no such thing as a blanket solution to anything.
I just want to know how to deal with her. I try to explain my point of view and she thinks I'm being patronizing. She accuses me of not doing enough work minutes after she's been looking at celebrity gossip on the internet for 10 minutes....and I'm a temp with very limited work given to me anyway. I'm expected to answer the phone when it rings, fax things, and occasionally do little stupid tasks that people ask me to do - it's a lab where they draw blood...I'm not a trained medical professional. I can't do much else.