You know you're an INFJ when...

**thegirlcandance** · 09-19-2009 08:42 PM

I thought this would be a fun discussion to see what people say...

What are some clear signs that you're an INFJ??

**snail** · 09-19-2009 09:55 PM

You know you're an INFJ when you have seven well-loved indoor cats, two happy dogs, a gerbil, a friendly guinea pig, a turtle, a parrot, a parakeet, three hamsters and seven goldfish, and your house is still spotless, does not smell like feces or urine, and there is no fur on the furniture. Extra points if you have a psychic bond with your animals or believe you used to be one. {true story}
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**Happy** · 09-19-2009 09:59 PM

You know your INFJ when you forgive people that betray you..... twice

**Ninja** · 09-19-2009 10:47 PM

When you find it hard to post just one idiosyncrasy.

**Kysinor** · 09-20-2009 12:14 AM

^ You are about to post something in a thread but then noticed that it has already been said.

**decided** · 09-20-2009 01:46 AM

Originally Posted by snail

You know you're an INFJ when you have seven well-loved indoor cats, two happy dogs, a gerbil, a friendly guinea pig, a turtle, a parrot, a parakeet, three hamsters and seven goldfish, and your house is still spotless, does not smell like feces or urine, and there is no fur on the furniture. Extra points if you have a psychic bond with your animals or believe you used to be one. {true story}
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Hmm... this isn't me, but it reminds me of my mum, who is an ISFP.

Originally Posted by Lance

You know your INFJ when you forgive people that betray you..... twice

And this one reminds me of my bestest friend, who is an ISFJ.
While I make a point of setting free my feelings of hurt and betrayal, I do not go back to the person who caused them.

I'll try to think of clear signs of INFJ-ness, but I do wonder if I'll just be listing traits that are covered in the personality type description articles...?

**Rouge** · 09-20-2009 02:47 AM

Originally Posted by decided

While I make a point of setting free my feelings of hurt and betrayal, I do not go back to the person who caused them.

I'm the same. I'm usually patient and tolerant and it takes A LOT to get to me. But once you cross that threshold, I write you off. Beyond a certain point, I usually find forgiveness impossible.

**Flamethrower** · 09-20-2009 03:17 AM

You know you are INFJ when you are the NICE version of the introverted intuitive!

**HollyGolightly** · 09-20-2009 06:58 AM

You know you're an INFJ when everything you do is wrong, although you had good intentions.
Then you really know you're an INFJ if you beat yourself up about it for ages afterwards.
You also know you're an INFJ when all you really want, deep down, is to be loved and love someone in return.
It further confirms you are an INFJ when you feel depressed because you think you are too different to be loved.

**Tyler87** · 09-20-2009 07:32 AM

When I scared the crap out of someone when I told them that I knew them better than they thought... They didn't believe me so I told them. They kinda freaked out. Also, when you subconsciously manipulate people close to you to change their outlook on life / who they are to the point that its frightening even if you're trying to help them / change them for the better. It gets worse when they realize it.

Basically bending others personalities until they fit what you want them to be.... at least from an unhealthy trait that most INFJ's can carry around.