[Celtic Dreams]

When you refuse to re-post one of those little chain posts on facebook because of the challenge at the bottom reading "people who REALLY care will re-post this."

[Lady Nurture]

Well I still ALWAYS wear a comforter to bed, but that's kind of like my own personal "safety net" I never grew out of. Yeah I'm a "furnace" that's what my ex referred me as.

Haha! I'd make a wonderful Samurai. No one would be able to penetrate the sheer awesome power of wearing literally everything I own. Plus socks.

[Vivid Melody]

When even just talking to yourself drains you after a while because your thoughts are so intricate and ever flowing.

[Lady Nurture]

When even just talking to yourself drains you after a while because your thoughts are so intricate and ever flowing.

Do you ever run out of breath when you talk your thoughts out? I tend to do that...it's embarrassing XD

[Vivid Melody]

Do you ever run out of breath when you talk your thoughts out? I tend to do that...it's embarrassing XD

Lol, guilty. Or I just get really weary and start to mumble but I don't want to stop because I hardly ever get to express myself! I'm usually always the one listening lol.

[Rain of Bliss]

Eskimo

It's called 'inuit'. Using the word 'Eskimo' is kind of like saying the n-word when talking about African Americans.

[Cerebro]

When your logical and emotional sides are constantly at war with one another (or maybe that's just me lol).

That' is VERY INFJ. We filter our Fe using our Ni, it's a struggle for sure. We have so many feelings coming from outside of us, we get lost in other people. And we have the need to make sense of it. We are considered the "logical feelers", and sometimes I know we can come off cold if we're deep in thought, or if we're trying to not let our emotions affect other people. Yet I believe, of all the types, our feelings are most intense. They come from outside of us, and usually they are of an abstract nature.


And while I'm here, you know you're an INFJ when you never really did like competition.
When I was in elementary school, I used to score on my own team's net so the two teams would be even, and everyone would be happy. Turns out only one team was happy...

[Jorji]

When you stay in a bad relationship, because you don't want to hurt the other person. (Ah, but when *they* are the ones who decide to leave, they better be sure it's what they want...they're not welcomed back).

[Vivid Melody]

When you sometimes over complicate/analyze simple things, thus missing the point ;)

[Celtic Dreams]

Hi! I post this before I can change my mind! Please, tell me if it's something you too can relate to, and sorry for my English, I hope you understand!


I'm sorry for my vent, I'm not looking for your pity or approval or critic, but I really think that my way of feeling and also my way to work out my problems reflects my INFJ nature:
- the strong desire of being understood and the inability to really express ourselves
- the fear of being misunderstood or rejected for how we are
- the focus on the future, sometimes so idealized in our mind that we often are disappointed when our dreams (of love, success, friendship...) aren't fulfilled
- the need of helping others
- the awareness of the complex and beautiful world of our soul, but also the sense of lacking, the desire to improve, the fear of being not so special or profound as we sometimes perceive ourselves
- the inability of being "easy going" persons, who live their lives without second-guessing theirselves or without "drown" in their minds and feelings

Ok, I already regret this post and I feel so naked now. Maybe I'm the only one to be so messed up... ^_^
Anyway, thanks for reading!

You sure sound like an INFJ to me honey, welcome to the club. Please don't be afraid or regret opening up in this forum. It's really a very nice, safe place. I'm new here and already everybody has made me feel very welcome and like I belong.