[Hokahey]

When you solve a problem while you aren't even trying to solve a problem.

[Hokahey]

You know you're an INFJ when your ENTP friend has taken a sudden interest in Jungian Theory (following your own silent musings about how wonderful it would be if he would) and spend the rest of the night trying to convince him to retake the MBTI test rather than give up on it because he says he doesn't have a "gut feeling" about the Yes/No questions. You're also this same INFJ, if the whole exchange both pumped you up and deflated you, in the same sitting. But you're definitelyan INFJ, if you're excited about finally having the ultimate talking point with which to inform/educate him and in this way, counteract his youthful, intellectual arrogance! ;)

You're INFJ when you're vain (in a good way) lmao....

When in an argument with someone you would rather just silently process both your own and the other person's perspective for an hour rather than express everything in the moment. All so you don't say something wrong/hurtful and regret it later.

When you figure out the "perfect" counter-argument point like an hour or two later, then it's like you want to tell them, so you randomly bring it up and it catches them off guard that you are still referring to a conversation that took place hour(s) ago. Then you feel stupid or insecure because now they have "moved on" but you didn't also the fact that you brought it up and they had to figure out what you were even talking about so then you have to explain all that again, lol. Then you wonder why they didn't know what you were talking about because you just spent all the time on that answer so you feel "neglect".

Btw my ISFJ best friend as actually figured out how to communicate with me where I will bring up "old" things and he's like right back at the conversation with me. lol....

[Lady Nurture]

When you can be verbally abstract in one language (English) and must be literal in another for the sake of your family (Spanish)

[Cerebro]

When you want to tell a joke, but decide against it, because while it's 'oh so funny' in your head, you don't think the person hearing it would be amused.

Or when you tell the joke because you found it so funny, and nobody actually finds it funny.

[Splintered in Her Head]

When no one understands you but you know you make perfect sense!
When you can see right through someone and their intentions, but no one else can, and maybe they think you're mean because you can see things they cannot about this person. Then when your proven correct, they forget all about what you said in the first place about that person.
When you want to be loved for who you are even if you are different than most.
When you just want to fit in once in a while.
When you can sense something is going to happen before it does...spooky!! (but sometimes fun!)

[Lady Nurture]

When your eyes go unnervingly cool with someone whose poor intentions you can read....they know it, and you know it---and suddenly you're deemed "intimidating"!

[Unspoken]

When you keep searching for a "misunderstood" option under "My Mood". lol

[Antrist]

Or when you tell the joke because you found it so funny, and nobody actually finds it funny.

And when they don't laugh you kind of put half an effort into explaining it awkwardly..

[Lady Nurture]

When, following a two day conversation about your "never ending brain" syndrome with a friend, you overthink a follow up text to his affirmation that you don't have to defend yourself with him, he understands.

[Celtic Dreams]

You know you are an INFJ when you find a little piece of music or art, or language, that is so PERFECT that it thrills and tickles you and sends chills up your spine, but when you try to share how perfectly perfect it is, most of your friends just smile and nod.. sigh.