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  1. #31

    Look to the moon

    The moon, you know it has always been here, right? Well not exactly, but to such a transitory life we as humans have, the moon in comparison is eternal, for it was there when you were born and will be here after you die. Like a god, does it sit there above us, watching us all – almost like moving us subtly? In the ancient world they called it Luna, you know? What a beautiful name, innocent but yet so compelling. In this world, where everything changes, all things are forever changing; it’s good to know that some things will remain the same in our lifetime and billions after it. The reason I am writing this, is for you to remember. The moon, for our relationship, can exist as a reminder to what we have together. We just have to build the association to it, to invest the energy from our imagination and memory, to make it whatever we need. You know, that’s why we suffer things, right? We associate them with pains, loss, and heartbreak of former times, so that the past can never leave us, almost as if we need to leave a little bit of ourselves on everything to remind us that we have lived before, that we have existed, even if it is the cleaving to painful moments.

    Hey! Let’s build a positive association, you and I? How about it? The moon can be like our very own special memento, just one that is more special and more grandiose than others, as it has to be, because our love is just as massive. So this is what I want you to do, follow the directions to the letter, ok? Next time when it is night, I want you to go outside, find a high spot to gaze at it. Beautiful, right? Don’t lose yourself in its beauty, remember me. When you look to the moon, remember my words to you; how you are like my angel, who can never fall from the heaven of my heart. When you look to the moon, remember how you feel in the presence of my being; how at ease you feel, calm, peaceful, protective, unafraid to be vulnerable, and happy. When you look to the moon, remember my touch; the warmth it gave, the chill you felt, feel these. When you look to the moon, remember our future together; for the same moon will exist then, while we will have changed physically and our environment with it, it will still be there. It will be looking down on the life we have created together, that life where our worries are gone and we are surrounded by the joy that we can only find in each other when we hold each other under the moon light. Maybe the moon is already at this moment, watching us, and even protecting it – maybe Luna is already there for us, holding that moment waiting for us to catch up.

    Look at it, now close your eyes and imagine everything I just told you to remember. Now open them. As you open them, know that I have done the same thing, with all the particularities of your beautiful mind, body, and emotions, I have associated them with the moons light. So now, the moon, no matter where we are, it will connect us. When we are away, when we talk, or when we are holding each other, the moon will hold the theme of our relationship: forever lovers. It will be like, when we look to the moon, on the moon will we be dancing in each others arms, looking deep into each others eyes – where only we exist, a private place to vibe, which no one knows about and no one else can come, but you and I.

    The moon is the third character in our story we are building together. Let our attention, our energy, and love meet there, this life, this night, this moment that Luna saved for us. So remember, look to the moon, and reach for our love.

    …With all my heart...

    …It’s not over yet, this writing just dropped back to the center and where it may go, no one knows for certain but my heart is certain, it feels outside of time. There is one certainty that we do know mentally that the moon will be there, so lets be also… so under this moon today, let’s use its eternity as our inspiration to reach our dreams.
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  2. #32

    What you mean to me

    When I was younger I used to walk the world in an imagination, so thick and dense, as if walking in a fog of my own dreams, wishes, and desires. In this imagination of mine, everything was a highlight of the seemingly intangible things of my heart; the fantasy, the sentimental, the happiness, and the blissfulness – things that the mechanical people around me, who had parted from their essence and dreams when conforming to the mindset of the world, say such are only naive imaginations. You will suffer, you will meet hardships, and your desires in childhood, much like mine, will be torn from you and you will grow up and find reality a part from your idealism. But I could not let my naivety leave me; my imaginations grew up with me, like an appendage of my very own body. I used it, or made use of it consciously. I figured, you live and you die, in this world you live only for a moment — like a flame of a candle, which can be blown out with the faintest of breaths.

    Those naive imaginations are like a cord, connecting you to something genuine and authentic in you, which you must remain connected to, to keep you grounded from all the constructs and identifications which will form in you as you grow older and with it, paralyze your heart. But desires evoke suffering, as you suffer over what you do not yet have and the expectations of possible receiving. A constant pain for me was something that I could not adequately understand in my youth. A part of me was missing… there was a hole in my heart disconnecting me from feeling — as if my emotions poured out from a leakage that had gone unnoticed. So I could not trace the leak back to the source. So disconnected I was, so detached I had been, and I was loss without the fuel of my emotions to invigorate me. But why has this occurred? What is that pain that has sapped me from my energy? It wasn’t until I met you, that I realized what was missing.

    You to me are like a healer, who has healed the wound that I have carried into this life, and throughout it, from which the organ of my emotions began to regenerate and flow as if the past accident which caused the problem had never existed. As if the heart valve had found its place to connect to again. For it was never to meet a connection merely in my own body, but to connect to yours, to connect to your heart — and the emotions in you, would flow into my heart and allow me to experience what I had never felt before. When I talk to you, it instantly heals me of whatever negative I maybe experiencing – your words and presence are the remedy to my gaps in perception, putting at ease the extremity of the Scorpio in me and frees it. Only you have the key.

    You to me are a lost love, who I only had an intuitive “feel” for in my youth. A message in a bottle connected us, it drifted through the waters, washed ashore in my heart, and found a place in my being from which I had a second life growing in me – the prospect of a companionship, that encounter could not have been coincidence – as there are no accidents. The words, they were nostalgic and the interaction uncannily familiar… the emotional so fulfilled and at home. In this bottle, the message is our experience together that would be and is now.

    When I hear your laugh, I am filled with laughter – when I hear your unique voice, I feel lifted as if floating on clouds… together, only you and I exist. The world could be ending, but together, inside our space we create for each other, it is still paradise. When I do not speak to you, I hear you – my heart communicates with you, so that you are with me, even when you are not physically there. But still, even though this is true, I still miss you like crazy regardless… Since time is relative, when I don’t speak to you for a day it feels like I have missed you for months and when I interact with you again, it’s like embracing my long lost love from a long journey abroad. And in that moment when interaction is reestablished, all of the associations and yearnings for you find their place in reality and in that moment they have peace. I put all my being into experiencing you – your funny little laugh, your cute way you say things, the feeling of affection that you project to me, your sensuality which captures me and opens me to expressing outward what I had wrongly suppressed.

    You to me are a compassionate peacemaker. Striving to bring peace to a life of discord, your compassion is your inner desire for harmony. In the midst of such difficulties, you always strive to be impartial – struggling to remain caring, like a mother hen is to her chicks when she opens her wings to them. You, the peacemaker, will bring peace to many in life and I love this desire about you, because it is the same as my desire.

    To me you are a best friend, as the one who you are with, ought to be your best friend. When we speak there is no limitation or restriction on what we share. We share our minds together, our hearts together, our lives together – and we do this because of the love between us is real, in real being love, and there is no separation between us.

    I love your openness, I love your capacity to consider through concepts, I love your ability to understand what many others do not nor have even the possibly too, I love how you know what I am talking about – but actually know it unlike others who lie to themselves, I love your instincts, I love your strategic tendencies, love your morality, I love that your interest are the same as mines, I love the chemistry between us, I love your body which to me is a work of priceless art, the curvatures and the angles speaks to my body in a way that no other has. My body recognizes the pricelessness of your form and values it – you are my beautiful mind, beautiful heart, and beautiful body.

    So when I think back to my imaginations, my apparent naivety which others labeled it as and how at times I even considered what they said, thinking maybe it is fantasy and such a person I shall never met – I know now I can rest and breathe easy, as you are that truth that I have known – you showed me, that there is no fantasy too big that can not be if you hold unto your desire and never let it go – for what you wish, you just might get, which is true for me, when you entered my life. Or maybe since memory can be seen as imagination, perhaps my imaginations in youth were memories from the future with you – and now I find myself in them, in the growing dream which has become alive. Since this world is nothing but a dream, together we will dream bigger dreams, dreams which will lay out our future together — so that our life together won’t become memories long passed, but \memories which do not end and exist before us and not behind us, where we experience every new moment in anticipation of the next that like a story, has been set out, by you and I, written in the language of our love, that only you and I know and understand.

    Of all my imaginations I have ever had, the prospect of this union with you is the greatest. I thank you for being you.

    --------------------

    LOL this one I cried when writing it. I read this one to her rofl.

  3. #33
    Unknown

    Quote Originally Posted by Vivid Melody View Post
    Yes, you should. We'd all enjoy reading them unless you'd think it would be better just to leave them buried. Don't want you getting depressed or anything looking back on that stuff. I know it's painful.
    I think the part of me that bothered me about being depressed or not is dead. I'm apathetic to my own feelings now.

    I found 5 of them today ... and actually, I laughed at myself when I read them. They sound pretty pathetic in retrospect considering what happened after all those promises :) I actually loll'ed at my love letters ---- they seem like they were written by someone else.

  4. #34

    Quote Originally Posted by Jawz View Post
    I think the part of me that bothered me about being depressed or not is dead. I'm apathetic to my own feelings now.

    I found 5 of them today ... and actually, I laughed at myself when I read them. They sound pretty pathetic in retrospect considering what happened after all those promises :) I actually loll'ed at my love letters ---- they seem like they were written by someone else.
    Hmm well laughter is good. I suppose it can be healing to look back on that stuff. I feel the same way when I look back on some of my old journal entries. It's interesting to see how we evolve. Just worried about you is all.
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  5. #35
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    Haha ... here it is ... this was after I had given my Fiance the engagement ring (December 2004) ... I laugh at it today knowing that it all amounted to nothing. I'll give a bit of a background.

    In our culture, fiances aren't allowed to meet. So we were alone maybe 6-7 times in 4 years of our engagement. It wasn't something I agreed with, but I sacrificed for her and her mother. Yes I did question it, and was always confused by her rigidity --- but --- intuition fails in the face of deep romantic love. It felt like a long distance relationship - even though we lived 5km apart.

    Anyways ... read on.

    -----


    I’ve been sitting here for the past 30 minutes thinking of the best possible way to start this letter. But, for once, I find myself at a complete loss for words.

    There is this thing we feel for each other that we call love. Yet we both know that love as a word leaves a lot to be desired in explaining what I feel for you. But I hope by the end of this letter, you will truly understand what I feel for you.

    What I gave you tonight, I want you to keep forever, no matter what happens, where life takes us. I want you to keep it with you, as a symbol of our friendship and as a reminder that no matter where life takes you, I will always be there with you. I don’t want you to wear it every second of the day. I only want you to wear it when you miss me. So that it will remind you that I’m missing you too.

    I wanted to ask you if, now, after 6 months of our engagement, do you still want to be my wife. I wanted to look into your eyes and ask you that question myself. I wanted to know for sure. I wanted to hear you say the words for yourself. I wanted to see those tears in your eyes … the overflowing ocean of emotion.

    I value your words … I value your opinion … The near perfect mix of emotion and practical reason … that is who you are. The girl everyone loves, but not many understand. The woman who has so much to say, yet so few people to tell it to. The observer that sees and understands everything about this world, though she has seen so little of it.

    I want to be the student who gets to learn everything there is to learn about you. The knight that protects you from evil. The friend you can share your problems with. The companion you can travel the world with. The lover you can share your deepest desires with. The husband you know will love you more than any man can ever love a woman.

    The ring is a token of my love … Something you can tell the world is from me. Know that this is my gift, and not my mother’s, or my father’s. Know that I went out and bought this for you despite being told not to, that I gave it to you even though being told there is no need. Know that I did not break any traditions giving this to you. Know that I’ve been dreaming of this day for 3 years, that I dreamed of a million different ways to give it to you. Know that finally giving this ring to you means more to me than anything else in this world.

    I wish I could hear your voice right now … look into your eyes … know how you feel … I hope my words mean more to you than my ring. I hope that you can see the honesty that my words hold in them. The love that no one can understand … love that society so hastily condemns. The love I feel … your love that I have earned … that is the biggest and most rewarding achievement of my life.

    One day my love … One day … the years will fly by … and we’ll finally be together … forever.

    ----

    Hehe ... it's actually kinda funny now.
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  6. #36
    ENFJ - The Givers

    Quote Originally Posted by Jawz View Post
    I’ve been sitting here for the past 30 minutes thinking of the best possible way to start this letter. But, for once, I find myself at a complete loss for words.
    OMG, I start almost ALL my love letters like that. So often that the emotion is so incredibly strong that even we can't find words strong enough to fully express them to our lovers.

    One of the reasons I started this thread was cause many people have commented on my various intimate letters, often from my blogspot blog.

    Long time ago, I typed a "love text" to my first crush, Sara. I did not get a reply and I just gave up on it. Then two years ago, I found out that she, a hardworking studious goody two shoes girl, actually brought her phone to school, despite it being against the rules to show it to her friends.

    Something I did not expect.

    And I felt kinda pissed, naturally.

    Still, I was thinking, was it something about being INFJ that makes all our expressions of love and intimacy so much more intense? Cause we "feel" in a more powerful and vivid manner and along with a natural knack for literature and language, I thought maybe I could find some beautifully penned down words.

    Indeed I have. I am proud to say that all your works make mine look like shit. A truly humbling experience.
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  7. #37
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    Quote Originally Posted by KC Tan View Post
    Indeed I have. I am proud to say that all your works make mine look like shit. A truly humbling experience.
    Don't sell yourself short, kiddo. I was forced into a gifted group of young writers at my Canadian school [even though I didn't want it] - Don't compare your works to mine or anybody else's. No matter how well-written it is .. if the person receiving it is incapable of feeling the same, then no matter how well love is expressed, it's worthless.

    You've got talent, a heart of gold and words that show the depth of care, knowledge and a zest for life despite all that you've been through as well.

    Personally, not to sound bitter or anything ... but love letters make one feel like a total ass if the recipient doesn't regard them. I'm not about to put myself in the same situation ever again. As far as love is concerned, Fe doesn't exist for me for the time being.
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  8. #38
    INFJ - The Protectors

    Dear <insert SO>

    I love you. That's all you need to know and that matters.

    Love,
    <insert name>
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  9. #39
    INFJ - The Protectors

    My most "heartfelt confession" was actually a break up letter to an ex.

    I will never post it though. It's way too personal.
    It's like I lost part of me when that relationship didn't work out.

    But as with all things, when doors close, others open up :)
    Last edited by Maximus; 07-18-2011 at 08:42 PM.
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  10. #40
    ENFJ - The Givers

    Quote Originally Posted by LookingGlass View Post
    Look to the moon

    The moon, you know it has always been here, right? Well not exactly, but to such a transitory life we as humans have, the moon in comparison is eternal, for it was there when you were born and will be here after you die. Like a god, does it sit there above us, watching us all – almost like moving us subtly? In the ancient world they called it Luna, you know? What a beautiful name, innocent but yet so compelling. In this world, where everything changes, all things are forever changing; it’s good to know that some things will remain the same in our lifetime and billions after it. The reason I am writing this, is for you to remember. The moon, for our relationship, can exist as a reminder to what we have together. We just have to build the association to it, to invest the energy from our imagination and memory, to make it whatever we need. You know, that’s why we suffer things, right? We associate them with pains, loss, and heartbreak of former times, so that the past can never leave us, almost as if we need to leave a little bit of ourselves on everything to remind us that we have lived before, that we have existed, even if it is the cleaving to painful moments.

    Hey! Let’s build a positive association, you and I? How about it? The moon can be like our very own special memento, just one that is more special and more grandiose than others, as it has to be, because our love is just as massive. So this is what I want you to do, follow the directions to the letter, ok? Next time when it is night, I want you to go outside, find a high spot to gaze at it. Beautiful, right? Don’t lose yourself in its beauty, remember me. When you look to the moon, remember my words to you; how you are like my angel, who can never fall from the heaven of my heart. When you look to the moon, remember how you feel in the presence of my being; how at ease you feel, calm, peaceful, protective, unafraid to be vulnerable, and happy. When you look to the moon, remember my touch; the warmth it gave, the chill you felt, feel these. When you look to the moon, remember our future together; for the same moon will exist then, while we will have changed physically and our environment with it, it will still be there. It will be looking down on the life we have created together, that life where our worries are gone and we are surrounded by the joy that we can only find in each other when we hold each other under the moon light. Maybe the moon is already at this moment, watching us, and even protecting it – maybe Luna is already there for us, holding that moment waiting for us to catch up.

    Look at it, now close your eyes and imagine everything I just told you to remember. Now open them. As you open them, know that I have done the same thing, with all the particularities of your beautiful mind, body, and emotions, I have associated them with the moons light. So now, the moon, no matter where we are, it will connect us. When we are away, when we talk, or when we are holding each other, the moon will hold the theme of our relationship: forever lovers. It will be like, when we look to the moon, on the moon will we be dancing in each others arms, looking deep into each others eyes – where only we exist, a private place to vibe, which no one knows about and no one else can come, but you and I.

    The moon is the third character in our story we are building together. Let our attention, our energy, and love meet there, this life, this night, this moment that Luna saved for us. So remember, look to the moon, and reach for our love.

    …With all my heart...

    …It’s not over yet, this writing just dropped back to the center and where it may go, no one knows for certain but my heart is certain, it feels outside of time. There is one certainty that we do know mentally that the moon will be there, so lets be also… so under this moon today, let’s use its eternity as our inspiration to reach our dreams.
    Your words remind me so much of this song. One of the childhood songs I grew up to and I never understood the meaning until I recently and in reflection, it meant so much to the girl in my first letter in the thread.



    Moon Represents My Heart by Teresa Teng – Lyrics and Meaning « Donn's Fragments (translation)
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