So. INFJ and a SP relationship? Bad idea or good? Is it even possible?
I'm a female INFJ, and I have a very attractive male ESFP coworker (my typing - not based on any real fact other than he's definitely a painter/animator, and based on life choices and extended conversations - i would guess ESFP)
This guy adores me... for better or for worse. And, to be completely honest, he is very fun company, and is attentive and nice. Almost overly nice. He remembers what I order in each restaurant. He makes sure I am well cared for and happy. We can talk for a long period of time without getting bored....
BUT - I don't think we're a long term match. We are different pages in the same book. He wants to like me because I *seem* like his ideal match. But I'm not. I need more. I need complexity. I need questions, ideas. etc. Still - he seems kind of entertaining.
Has anyone ever dared enter a relationship with an SP (any type)? What did you think? Was it better or worse than you imagined? Would you recommend such a relationship? Why or why not?