When I see the INFJs I know (2 males, 1 female), It seems, you're not overly sensitive.
I can say my sarcastic comments, be ironic with them (a little less with the female), they intuitively grap that this is just 2d degree humour (or even 200 degree humour) and I don't mean to hurt them or hurt anyone. They even answer with even more sarcastic comments. Or they tease me.
Well, I am used to feeler who over-react to anything they would judge non politically correct. It seems that INFJs even like to be non politically correct (as long as they know, it was not intended to be mean and that it was just some funny off the wall comments). Am I right ?
PS : Sorry for the mistake in the title thread, if anyone can fix this....