Ok here is a weird dual aspect of my personality. I am by nature a peaceful person, I love and want to take care of other people, but on the flip side, it takes about two seconds of me seeing someone hurt a person I care for and I turn into a raging lunatic, who will just as easily kick your butt between your shoulder blades as look at you.
Some one could smack me in the face a hundred times and really I could care less I would say is that all you have? and turn the other cheek a dozen times. I would probably not raise a hand to hurt them back, but hurt my family or friends and the Lord better have mercy on you because I probably will not. I literally once jumped on a guys back and bit his ear because he was trying to sneak up and hit one of my friends from behind.
I know that is not a good way to be, but there are these conflicting side to me, one wants to love and care for all people but the other will do almost anything to protect the people I love.
Do any other INFJ types find that they are kind of both lovers and fighters at the same time? And have a hard time reconciling and understanding that?