could you live through life by putting a more positive spin on everything and deflect negativity?
could you stop blaming others for your hardships, could you stop being a victim even if you indeed have a right to be one?
could you be truly responsible for everything that happens to you and own every problem or hardship you face, or would you rather shy away and disappear from it all and let those problems own you?
does being comfortable actually make you uncomfortable?
I found that for me, it really does effect your life and that once you own up to yourself and every detail that's somehow attached to you, life gets much more enjoyable.
take care of your health, guys, it's amazing how much forcing yourself to be positive in any situation effects it. even if you're in the right, being unyieldingly obstinate can make you sick -- figure ways around things and let your ego drop...it has this way of affecting your confidence for the better every single time. just let it go and take care of it from your end and that's that.
i've been slowly changing the way i deal with everything and have been putting this way of dealing with my outer world and inner world through its paces. i've always been an athletic person but i've neglected that aspect of my life since i hit adulthood. I'm running twice a day and hitting the weights at home and enjoying every second of living and it's been like this for the past 2 months since I started. I say hello to everyone, help out someone when they need it without entering their name into a favour "tab", explore my surrounding area like i used to when i was a kid, eat a lot less, actually accomplish all my little daily goals, force myself to take care of the gigantic decisions i've always put off by managing my time properly ...basically i'm living up to my ideals instead of just talking about them.
i just want to let you guys know that it's possible for all of you no matter how shitty you think life is right now, because it's mostly just in your head. start doing it at any time, but if you're young, i suggest you start right away... you'll have a step up on probably everyone around you.
i'm only 2 months in, but i'm never going to stop...it feels too good. hell, i even danced for the first time last week. me? dance? lol.
i feel better now than i ever did before. including when i was in the best relationship of my life.