I'm wondering if other INFJs experience this, but I feel like I've come to the point in my life where I am just socially bored. I have two roommates right now, and a lot of times rather than hang out with them I would rather read a book by myself or play/talk with the dogs or cats. My only outlet lately for intellectual conversation is these forums and that's about it.
My one roommate is always on-the-go and I can have some decent conversations with her (she's more insightful than the other one though she still acts without thinking of the potential outcome). I got the feeling that she's an ESFP, perhaps (or ESFJ), and a lot of times she'll invite people over or hang out with people that I just have meaningless conversation. The other I think is an SJ of some sorts... and she's not working much now and a lot of times all she wants to do is sit around watching movies, hang out with her immature boyfriend, or go out to eat and drink. How mind-numbing.
I have lived with two ESFJs in the past and with them I would often just "fake it" to make them happy, I guess you could say (not sure how else to say it even though that sounds bad...). Since I know that the one would get upset by me going about my really independent ways.
When I lived with an ENTJ prior to now is was amazing because we were completely independent but would hang out and have good conversations a few days a week. Initially, I was intimidated by her because her lack of Fe to provide a "welcoming" feeling, but over time we got along great.
I'm at the point now where I'm just completely socially bored and don't feel like wasting my time with meaningless mind-numbing interactions. Its so distressing. I went from mentally challenging every day with work to no external stimulation at all. Agh.