[VioletHaze]

Would an INFJ girl and ENFP guy go well together in a relationship? I used to work with a sweet ENFP guy, he was really genuine and kind. Any comments or past experiences? Feel free...*

[balderdash]

I can't say as to whether it would be a match made in heaven. But any two people that are both open and willing to make something work will make it work. That being said, some have to work harder than others.

[eclipsethesun]

Hmmm Im a bit biased but YES! Of course there are many many exceptions but I don't think anyone can catch an INFJ and keep her intrigued the way an ENFP guy can! Hahahahaha they just do not give up. It's like magnets and idk it's nearly impossible to stop once the feeling is mutual.

[Navis Amoris]

Sure, ENFPs are great. You just have to be able to deal with the fact that they are very outgoing and love to connect with many people. They can get a bit too intimate in their connecting with others for my taste, and I was personally too jealous to deal with that. What will you feel like when he sees his female friend on the street and is like "Hey [name]! I missed you *big hug* What have you been up to?". Depending on the ENFP's popularity that could happen many times a day. At least, that's my experience with them.

[VioletHaze]

LOL! so true, he wont give up, I worked at the same place with him for about 3 months, and as soon as I started working there, he was always near me, making me laugh or teasing me, he asked me for my number a couple of times, but i NEVER gave it t him, and he even gave me his number. I was still healing from my last relationship, my ex cheated on me, but im realizing this new guy is so sweet and he makes a real effort to get close to me,he's different and I feel I can trust him. im gonna give him a chance and see where it goes, thanx for the advice**

[VioletHaze]

I would be ok if he gave female friends hugs because I know that he's just being sweet and the kind person that he is. If at any time he gives me a definite reason that I cant trust him, then it just couldnt work, because I absolutely need to be able to trust the person im with 100%, no games and no bs.

[vel]

I haven't been in close intimate relationship with an ENFP but this is a common opposites attract kind of pairing - a serious reserved introvert and an outgoing optimistic extravert.

In socionics the INFJ-ENFP relationships is classed as that of extinguishment - initially attractive but partners can grow to become suspicious of each other:
Relations of extinguishment - Wikisocion
Socionics :: Intertype Relations
Contrary relations between psychological ("personality") types

[SuspenderOfDisbelief]

DO IT. Its really as simple as that. You like, you have. =3

[TJSeabury]

Would an INFJ girl and ENFP guy go well together in a relationship? I used to work with a sweet ENFP guy, he was really genuine and kind. Any comments or past experiences? Feel free...*

Why you asking us? They're NF's which = <3. Go for it!