your worst shadow side INFJ Forum - The Protectors Thread, your worst shadow side in NF's Temperament Forum- The Dreamers; Originally Posted by Ikari T
wow really? I LOVE being angry. I feel more alive and tend to be more ...  | | 
11-08-2008, 10:35 PM
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#21 | INFJ - The Protectors
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Originally Posted by Ikari T  wow really? I LOVE being angry. I feel more alive and tend to be more productive. I achieve so much more than when I am sober. *drinks monster energy drink* mmmm....angry. | Nope, cause I'm intense, baby. My rage ain't nothing pretty. And then I get depressed when I let my feelings get the best of me like that. | 
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11-08-2008, 11:08 PM
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#22 | Unknown Personality
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As a kid, I had temper problems. To this day, I have occasional flare-ups. Then one summer, instead of turning my shadow side outward, I just cut myself off from everyone, socially and emotionally. Neither is a pleasant experience. | |
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11-08-2008, 11:35 PM
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#23 | INTP - The Thinkers
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do you er... mind me asking for the details on how that turned out, why it wasn't pleasant? I'm kind of on the edge of that myself... | |
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11-09-2008, 07:35 AM
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#24 | INFJ - The Protectors
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my worst shadow side..
i can loose my temper when i was in the middle of unexpected argument..
that's why i hate argument..
that's why i'm an INFJ  | |
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11-09-2008, 09:23 AM
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#25 | INTP - The Thinkers
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Originally Posted by lunniey my worst shadow side..
i can loose my temper when i was in the middle of unexpected argument..
that's why i hate argument..
that's why i'm an INFJ | I agree. I hate arguments too. It gets nothing resolved. | |
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11-09-2008, 09:53 AM
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#26 | Unknown Personality
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Originally Posted by cryptonia do you er... mind me asking for the details on how that turned out, why it wasn't pleasant? I'm kind of on the edge of that myself... | Which, the anger or isolation? | |
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11-09-2008, 09:59 AM
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#27 | INTP - The Thinkers
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sorry, isolation. I'm extremely slow to get angry... so less worried about that. | |
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11-09-2008, 10:16 AM
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#28 | Unknown Personality
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Well, it might not apply for you, but I just cut off old friendships out of the blue. I'd felt that the friendships were getting strained and dying as we grew apart, but my friends didn't feel that way. I questioned my love for the people around me. I didn't talk to family or friends, and I became distant to everyone, often uncharacteristically irritable. Those were pretty dark days. I have kept some of that distance even today. There are some friends, new ones, whom I'm actually close to, but I still haven't bridged all the gaps I created. Does that answer your question? | |
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11-09-2008, 11:00 AM
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#29 | INTP - The Thinkers
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sort of... I mean, every bit of information helps somehow... but I was more wondering why it was such a bad choice, about the damage it did. I'm hoping that if there's enough there I can use it to talk myself out of doing the same thing, because I quite honestly started down this road within the last 2 months. I don't think it's irreversible, quite yet, but I really need strong enough reasons to push me back if it really is bad for you, in the end. I kinda think that someone else's experiences have the best shot of doing that.
you could PM it if you don't want it out on the forum too... but, of course, don't feel obligated to explain at all either. | |
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11-11-2008, 04:18 AM
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#30 | INFJ - The Protectors
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I think my worst side comes out when I am emotional.... there are those certain times... but what really irritates me, although probably minor, is when I find my sink full of glass and dishes and the damn dishwasher is right below it! Please! how hard is it to put those stupid dishes in the dishwasher.. Ok.. calm down. LOL But I have to admit, there are several things that brings it out, this is just one of them. | |
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