I have a friend who I sincerely believe is an INFJ. She isn't into personality types or even psychology in general so I couldn't get her to take the test, but the INFJ profiles I've read describe her quite accurately: she's warm, caring, emotionally sensitive, artistic (she dresses well and she also plays the piano beautifully), a linguist, well-loved by others, etc.
True to her personality type, she becomes a counselor of her friends, including me. I've been trying to explain how intuition affects my life as an INTJ so that she could help me. But since INTJs already have difficulty explaining things, I've had my hands tied even tighter when trying to explain intuition . I've been trying to illustrate--in my usual INTJ way (Te)--how intuition fits into my life but I don't seem to be getting across. I find it a bit strange because she's supposed to be intuitive as well. Maybe it's because her intuition is more expressed through Fe? Or maybe it's because Ni is somehow manifested differently between INTJs and INFJs? Should I give her a list of examples on how she uses Ni as an INFJ?
Please help me explain intuition to my INFJ friend.