Anyone else have an issue with others not seeing you for who you are and not appreciating it? It's almost as if we are an after-thought. Something only appreciated when we are gone. Are we really that uninteresting? And why is it that they see it months or years down the road?!?! Is it because they finally wake up and compare us to other less gratifying relationships?
What gives someone an instant interesting quality and how do we cultivate that within ourselves?
Even my threads on here seem uninteresting to most (perhaps that's my interprutation due to lack of response). Is it possible to be an INFJ and not appear interesting to other INFJs?