[Female INFJ]

You can practice on me any time you like!

Wow Rube - you've responded before i even hit send! hehehe i edited to add my progress on my self improvement endeavors - sorry for thinking outside of my head! i should not have mentioned this, but writing it, is getting closer to doing it for me! there is a side of me that i kind of avoid, but why avoid, i should enjoy? right? but lets keep the thread nice and tidy, and for sure i'll update you elsewhere (: certainly when you are bit older, i'll need a volunteer! hehehe i'm sure they have people for such assignments.

[myjazz]

Maybe you secret project should be moved up on your list, don't say you didn't ask for it.

[Rube]

Wow Rube - you've responded before i even hit send! hehehe i edited to add my progress on my self improvement endeavors - sorry for thinking outside of my head! i should not have mentioned this, but writing it, is getting closer to doing it for me! there is a side of me that i kind of avoid, but why avoid, i should enjoy? right? but lets keep the thread nice and tidy, and for sure i'll update you elsewhere (: certainly when you are bit older, i'll need a volunteer! hehehe i'm sure they have people for such assignments.

When I'm a bit older? Aren't I already old enough?

[pajamiez]

What are you currently working on in regards to self-improvement? How are you achieving this? And how well are you doing?


I currently want to improve my intuition into people. I'm doing this by trying to be more aware of people's body language, words and motivations. I may get into mediation. I also just started on this recently but I know it is something that I will keep doing.

I'm also working on toning up my arms and stomach by dancing to music I love at home, and doing sit-ups and push-ups. I just started 2 days ago, so I can't say how well I'm doing, I hope my enthusiasm keeps up

I'm also working on becoming more charming. I work with a few extraverts and they are great at puting customers at ease and even flirting with them. Sometimes it is draining for me to make small talk to randoms I may never talk to again (customers) but I work at it occasionally and I'm improving slowly.

My goals are similar. I want to weigh less and I believe if I keep eating as I do it will make me look how I want to when I am older. Then I won't have to worry about how to hide myself much any more.
I'd love to learn more about lucid dreaming, negative + positive energies, meditation, ect.
I'm trying to perfect how I write and draw. I want to focus more on making ideas and using my creativity rather than being worrysome all of the time. I sort of want to be more capable of making friends.

[dailybranflakes]

I'm trying to eat healthier as I've been a bit down on myself and surviving solely on sandwiches, yoghurt, and nutella heh.
I'm also trying to be more positive and not let others get me down, even though two people have really disappointed me lately. If they want to be negative, fine, but I don't want that in my life.
Oh and no more procrastinating on things...

[halah]

I'm working on my health: eating healthy, exercising = hoping to lose weight and have a healthier, active lifestyle.
Also working on trying to focus on ME as I have focused way too much on others that I've created alot of stress to my self.

[NightSkyGirl]

Oh I could certainly name more than a few. I need so much improvement it's not even funny. I am always analyzing my own behavior to see how I can modify it while still being me. I think I've changed a lot, especially in the last couple of years. Not all of my changes were for the best(unfortunately) but I'm working on improving that...

[Raft]

I'm trying to eat healthier too. Work is so stressful at the moment. I'm glad I'm spending my spare time on good things, instead of zoning out and playing computer games like I used to.

[pajamiez]

Oh I could certainly name more than a few. I need so much improvement it's not even funny. I am always analyzing my own behavior to see how I can modify it while still being me. I think I've changed a lot, especially in the last couple of years. Not all of my changes were for the best(unfortunately) but I'm working on improving that...

Same here!

[BodhiTree]

I'm trying to be happy with what I have and enjoy living in the present than always thinking about the future...

Hi Linus,
Same here! I always make plans but a lot of times ended up with disappointment, then I read this powerful article on March's O Magazine where Oprah talked to Thich Nhat Hanh... "People sacrifice the present for the future. But life is available only in the present." It really smacked my head.
Though now I'm still making plans, but I don't want to put too much hope. Just do it one step at a time and enjoy the process.