[brittneyblr]

Hi I'm new here, first post anyway
Top 5 Characteristics:
1)Intelligence
2)Empathy/Sympathy/Sensitivity/Honesty (They all kind of fall into the same category for me)
3)But I also like a mans man, I want to feel safe with whom ever I'm with and I've grown up with a blue collar dad that could build a house from the foundation to roof as well as make a mean dinner so I guess my expectations a set a bit high.
4)I tend to give everything of myself in a relationship I would like someone who can also give and not just take
5)Open minded

Top 5 Physical Features:
1)Nice teeth
2)Nice skin
3)I like some one taller than me I'm 5'7"
4)Physically fit, not necessarily crazy fit just healthy (though some nice cut muscles never turned anyone off. lol)
5)Just generally clean, attention to grooming

Top 5 Dislikes:
1)Arrogance, cockiness such a turn off
2)Violent temper, yelling, cussing (in anger)
3)Drinkers (beyond recreation)
4)Selfish, self-centered
5)Lying, dishonesty

Top 5 Desires:
1)Affectionate and willing to give a girl a complement
2)Can be serious and have goofy whatever the situation calls for
3)Able to have in depth conversations with me about anything, that goes back to intelligence
4)Good in bed
5)I just really want what everyone wants and thats someone who loves you flaws and all.Some one who can appreciate me for who I am

[aela]

Characteristics:
1) Utterly emasculated.
2) Properly trained to tend to the house while I go to work.
3...

Oh wait, I'm only supposed to share that list at the man-hating conventions. >_>

Characteristics:
1) Smart and knows it
2) Mischievous and playful
3) But able to settle down for serious talking/connecting when it's needed
4) Dominant (as in kinky)
5) Kind/giving/magnanimous/etc.
6 (<---- I are breaking mold.) Affectionate

Physical Features:
1) Tall
... um... I'm pretty easy as far as looks go. Height is the only thing I can think of that all my partners had in common.

Dislikes:
1) Unnecessarily critical
2) Cruel
3) Uncommunicative
4) Needs to be on the go all or most of the time, either wanting me to go with or neglecting me because I won't
5) Workaholic

Desires:
I guess I really only have one, but it's too personal to share.


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This list is pretty much what I look for in girls, too.

[GreenCoyote]

OK.
so i totally get to be a girl on here.
yippppeeee.

I love when this happens

ok,.. sooo... (currently giggling)

Top 5 Characteristics
1) humor must click
2) an active do-er who will get me off my butt
3) full of fun facts that are true!
4) gives knowing look with eyes
5) can share a smile/laughter
6) can relax around me...REALLY IMPORTANT!
Top 5 Physical Features
1) earthy eyes, green or fire brown.
2) I like blonds
5) tall, got to get as close as can to 6' 7"... yeah, I need a fellow giant
Top 5 Dislikes
1) fake
2) too childish/ whiny
3) is hated by close friends
4) complements me too much
5) gets upset when I am laughing, kills my mood.
Top 5 Desires
1) he must feel like the wind on my skin
2) total musician, good at instrument, lets me sing to his melodies
3) will go out with me, (i like going out, but not alone)
4) will stay in and watch movies on a couch with me
5) subtle touches

[Ransomer]

does this apply to every guy? i got into a bit of a tiff with someone. complicated situations, won't dwelve into it, but now he's ignoring me. sits right next to me in class (im in college by the way), and i notice he gets sort of tense every now and then, especially when i talk to the classmate next to me. right now we're on spring break and i haven't heard from him since nor have i texted/called him. not sure what's going on but i hope this break will help us relax and hopefully freshen out the ...err..whatever it is we have right now..perhaps nothing at all..golly i'm so confused but i think its best just not to think about it anymore.. i'll update as things unveal...

edit: oh btw, i meant to say...im sure if you're with another infj... you could unleash those affections comfortably ;D and who knows...it might not stop. hahaha.

edit: and he's got a ton of friends...always busy.. so i get the impression that he doesn't give a damn. who knows...maybe he doesn't... sigh* but i'm definately regaining ground in terms of my own tranquil little world...

not every guy. I love to follow my emotions. Or at least until i get some kinda clue to tone it down a bit. Suppressing emotions sucks so i attempt to do so as little as possible.

[Gracie]

Top 5 Characteristics
Generous
Loyal/family-oriented
Intellectual
Caring / compassionate
Altruistic

Top 5 Physical Features
Tall
Slightly... nerdy?
Expressive eyes
Dark hair (usually)
Kissable lips

Top 5 Dislikes
Arrogance
Obstinacy
Aggressiveness / argumentativeness
Insecurity
Selfishness

Top 5 Desires
A real... depth (?) in our relationship - a profound understanding of each other
Mutual respect
Comparable levels of intelligence
Shared philanthropy

[spook]

Went with the number of the beast instead to symbolise pickiness, muhah couldn't resist >:D

Top 6 Characteristics:

-Kind
-Intelligent
-Honest/genuine
-Funny/witty
-Loyal
-Must be *Passionately Interesting* and make me feel all sparkly inside!!

Top 6 Physical Features:

-Good hygiene
-Healthy/fit
-Fluffy hair
-Doesn't have terrible taste in clothes :)
-Kind of muscular (:
-Not a prerequisite but I do tend to adore european accents

Top 5 Dislikes:

-Conceited guys who think they're so top shit, every girl wants them
-Liars/cheaters/druggies/abusive pricks/all that unhealthy shit
-Brawn over brains-shallowness
-Conformity, having a lack of integrity
-Disrespect and obnoxiousness
-Bad taste in music- I can't stand a lot of rap/r&b music so if that's all you listen to, I'm sorry but it's a real turn off

Top 6 Desires:

-Mixture of long, deep and playful conversations
-Intense emotional and physical affection
-For the male to be more dominant in initiating things, being more outgoing than me to bring me out of my shell
-Some shared interests, or being able to teach me new, interesting things
-I have a soft spot for guys who are a bit of a rebel yet still remain a gentleman. Something that indicates he's a lovable independent thinker :)
-For him to adore me of course. *cheese*

[TeeJay]

I find reading this thread quite enjoyable . One thing that I find remarkable is that none of the men mentioned "good in bed" so far while the women have .

[Navis Amoris]

Top 1 Physical Features:

-Not a prerequisite but I do tend to adore european accents

Ok, so I made your top 6 into a top 1. Shoot me. I just liked this one the best. It's nice to know my accent is appreciated by some people.

I'm personally into accents as well. My fiancee is from The Philippines and she sounds adorable when she speaks English. We're working on her Dutch now, and her pronunciation is good but she has some problems remembering the words though. Not to mention Dutch grammar.

[keepsake]

I find reading this thread quite enjoyable . One thing that I find remarkable is that none of the men mentioned "good in bed" so far while the women have .

i think the men are just coy...since theres that stereotype of how most just wanna get in our pants anyways so perhaps many of them are trying to show respect by avoiding that area. but isn't it a nice change how women are tossing the term about like get out of jail, cards? haha

[Rouge]

I find reading this thread quite enjoyable . One thing that I find remarkable is that none of the men mentioned "good in bed" so far while the women have .

It's simple biology, my dear. Men are more quickly turned on and have a much easier time reaching orgasm. Women take more time to get ready for sex and require lots of foreplay, not to mention continual stimulation after that to acheive sexual gratification. That's why women are more likely to mention this as a quality they'd want in a mate as compared to the men.