So I have been trying to understand INFJ judgment. I feel that this happens to me in certain difficult situations (i.e., I'm reading things into people's behaviors much against my own will). There have been really eerie times when I've been totally right.
But the rest of the time, I feel like I need to repress my interpretations of events because 1) unless I have proof I may be wrong 2) because my interpretations can cause bad reactions so I do the REBT thing of accepting other people's behaviors as their responsibility.
Nevertheless, I do feel I'm getting information about the world that I'm not handling very usefully. Is there any way to start taking whatever my intuition seems to tell me and use it in some way? I have often found directly asking people is a dead end, because they're unlikely to be truthful or self-aware and typically defensive.