Are INFJ men attracted to INFJ women, or is it too intense?

**stormfox** · 03-05-2010 09:44 PM

Do INFJ men find us INFJ women too intense or do we connect on a deep and satisfying level? Are we not funny/outgoing/quirky enough?

**angularvelocity** · 03-05-2010 11:50 PM

*extends hand out to stormfox*

**dp624** · 03-05-2010 11:58 PM

i've heard somewhere that infjs are likely to marry each other (more often than other types) :)
seems like it would be a great match!

**Selene** · 03-06-2010 12:20 AM

No, it's not a problem. There's a couple INFJ women on here I'd like to snarkle.

**MMtwenty** · 03-06-2010 12:51 AM

Infj women are interesting. I have one I consider a sister, another one I would like to know intimately. It is a case by case basses.

Honestly I'd love to meet a enfj woman, I have a weakness for extroverted women.

**Hikari** · 03-06-2010 01:40 AM

I LOVE INFJs!!!!!!!!!!!!! ^^ they are awesome.....
I seem to have a thing for ENFJs too.... =P

**aela** · 03-06-2010 01:40 AM

Boo heteronormativity. I'm sure intensity has nothing to do with gay INFJ men not being attracted to INFJ women. Rar. >.<

**dreaming panda** · 03-06-2010 02:28 AM

No I'm a girl, but one of my closest friends is an INFJ-boy. The INFJ-INFJ-friendship I have with him, is different from anything else.. we understand eachother on another level than anyother can understand us.. But, we didn't fall for eachother

Of course, we could have. I think we could be a "perfect couple", but we just don't have those feelings for eachother =)
I could for sure have fallen for an INFJ-boy, but it's not all about the personality, the "little extra" has to be there

**safelocked** · 03-06-2010 03:45 AM

My closest guy friend is an INFJ. I adore him, and always wish him the best. Because we're looking for different things in terms of growth, our companionship is fine as it is. It could never work out as a closer relationship, but that's not because we're INFJs, that's because we're different people. Life happened.

It's a great combination, though. I'm under the belief that INFJx2 would be one of those smooth rollercoasters; something that you could ultimately enjoy, something that was so exhilarating and ridiculous that it just worked out right. Too much love in both people not to enjoy it, even with the mistakes and uglier things around us.