INFJs Partner

**lunniey** · 10-22-2008 07:03 AM

“INFJ's natural partner is the ENTP, or the ENFP.”

If you have a love partner now, did he/she has the ENTP or ENFP personality? If it’s not, what personality does she/he has?
If you don’t have any partner now, do you have any ex-partner who has ENTP or ENFP personality?
Well, anyway just share all of this kind of things here

**psyche's release** · 10-22-2008 11:04 AM

my current partner is an ISFP (i think - potentialy ISFJ)

my former partner is an extravert, but gets pretty much 50/50 results in all areas.

i find there are so many issues and factors that go into a romantic relationship that things like the MBTI can't be relied upon in making a choice. only, perhaps, in clarifying what you're looking for in a partner.

in trying to type all my exes, in hindsight ... they were all pretty much introverts, though.

**lunniey** · 10-24-2008 06:35 AM

well, I don’t have any partner right now, and I don’t know what type of my ex-boyfriends personality are. But I think none of them is ENTP or ENFP, coz I tend to adapt wih their personality and not naturally match with them..

but anyway, u are right psyche,there are so many issues and factors that go into a romantic relationship.. but after i read the ENFP and ENFP character, i kinda like those kinds of guy that kind of character..

and yes, i think many of my ex-boyfriend are introvert too just like u..

**limetree** · 10-24-2008 07:03 PM

I've never been a relationship but I find ENPs to be interesting, bright-aura'd folks. Talk about nuclear intuitive combo...which makes me think of neopets snowpuffs. :D

The guy I like is ETP but he's too popular and I find him to be quite intimidating. Smart guy though. Type opposites seem "exotic" at first muhaha.

**lunniey** · 10-25-2008 06:46 AM

Originally Posted by limetree

I've never been a relationship but I find ENPs to be interesting, bright-aura'd folks. Talk about nuclear intuitive combo...which makes me think of neopets snowpuffs. :D

The guy I like is ETP but he's too popular and I find him to be quite intimidating. Smart guy though. Type opposites seem "exotic" at first muhaha.

Yes, i guess an ENFP are interesting.. and actually i think if i had to chose between ENFP or ENTP i would chose ENFP.. Although i kinda like those smart-charming kind of guy, but they tend to be arrogant

well maybe not all..

**Mystic Jenn** · 10-31-2008 02:45 PM

Just don't marry an ESTJ. I'm going through a separation from one. He is a workaholic. Very good guy and it was his decision to end the marriage. After a while I realized he did me a favor. He was always gone and when he did come home we would butt heads big time. We're both stubborn types.

**NephilimAzrael** · 10-31-2008 07:35 PM

Why were you in the household rather than in an interest group of your own (let me guess, he asked something along the lines of that?)

I respect that ESTJs are project orientated, but they provide regardless of intuitive circumstances. That ESTJ does not care truly of the failures imposed upon you, rather the separation that may or may not be vindicated by two adult individuals. Let me guess he respected the challenge and the verification (includes sexual elements) rather than subjection and consideration?

**Ikari T** · 10-31-2008 10:23 PM

INFJs are also known to be good partners with INTPs as well.
Check this out:
http://homepage.mac.com/bahlberg/ibl...434/index.html

**Mystic Jenn** · 11-01-2008 04:01 PM

Originally Posted by NephilimAzrael

Why were you in the household rather than in an interest group of your own (let me guess, he asked something along the lines of that?)

I respect that ESTJs are project orientated, but they provide regardless of intuitive circumstances. That ESTJ does not care truly of the failures imposed upon you, rather the separation that may or may not be vindicated by two adult individuals. Let me guess he respected the challenge and the verification (includes sexual elements) rather than subjection and consideration?

He is so not into personality typing or anything to do with psychology. We were good friends for a long time before we hooked up. Definitely had lots of good times. He was a great friend and he should have just stayed a friend. But, we do have two beautiful children and I couldn't ask for a better personality type to have a divorce with. LOL!

I learned a great deal after he left. Our communication styles are different. Because he is a sensing type my abstract thoughts would annoy him after a bit. He told me before he left that I sounded like my mom (ENFP = Abstract thinker). I asked him why he married me if he didn't like the way I thought. He said, "I thought you would change after you were with me. I thought I could tame you down." I just looked at him in shock and of course I was hurt. How very selfish and naive to think you can mold a person into the image you want them to be. Ass. He did me a favor. He was very controlling. I would buck his authority. We clashed big time. I read that about the ESTJ and INFJ relationship. I would tell him, "I am not one of your subordinates at work. I am your wife, quit bossing me around."

He wasn't very considerate of my feelings either. I mean he tried, but it was hard.